Help...I need advice
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Hi so my name is Megan, I am 14 and new to this forum. I have been suffering from panic attacks for around 8 months now and last night was my worst so far. Last night I went to a concert with a friend, there were thousands of people at this concert and it was all indoors in a small ish arena. There were no seats so everyone was standing. The act had three support acts so we were standing for 3 hours before they actually came on. I'm not very good with big crowds, lots of people and small spaces but because I would be singing along and jumping I thought I would be too distracted to have a panic attack. But as soon as the main act came on everyone started screaming really loud, there was pitch black and then all of a sudden there was loads of really bright flashing lights. This started my panic attack and it didn't get better, people kept screaming and each time that finished a song it would go pitch black before loads of lights would flash again, making me feel really lightheaded. My legs where shaking like mad, I could feel my heart rate throughout my body and I literally felt like I was going to collapse. I had a empty bottle in my hand which I squeezed as hard as I could to distract myself but each second I just felt worse and worse. Eventually after 30 minutes of them being on I decides to push my way back though the thousands of people to the back of the arena. I went into the toilets and sat in the cubicle for around 20 minutes trying to calm myself down, stopyself from shaking and slow down my heart rate. I waited outside for the rest of the concert. Now today I was in school and some boys decided to flash the lights on and off which brought back all of these feelings and each time I think about it I have a panic attack. What do I do ? Is there any way I can stop this from happening and even stop my panic attacks altogether ?
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richard89308 mmmeeeggg
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All the best
richard
terri27731 mmmeeeggg
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I have suffered from anxiety for years, not very reassuring I know! However, recently I have realised that our thoughts of anxiety are just that- thoughts. If you take control of your thoughts and refuse to give them free reign this helps enormously. When a negative thought enters your head just say to yourself o.k. that is not helpful let it go. Because I thought it is not true or a fact it is just a passing thought. Replace it with something helpful - I can cope with this situation, I am a good person, I will grow through the
terri27731 mmmeeeggg
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for some reason I couldn't finish my text. I was going to say let the experience enable you to grow. Never avoid situations it will make the problem worse. Confide in very good trustworthy friends. Talking is the best therapy. Look at your diet and avoid,caffeine
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