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kelly45731
kelly45731

I'm struggling to move on from a relationship that was affected by anxiety and depression,

We met recently and got into an argument. He hurt me with comments saying "he hadn't had a laugh since meeting up that day and how he only saw me as a friend (even though I had not insinuated that we should)

I feel pathetic and have no idea why I can't seem to move on

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  • lindathepinda
    lindathepinda kelly45731

    Posted

    Quit contact, he sounds like an unhealthy connection for you. In short: take distance, and decide on what you need and evaluate what he's offering you. Draw you conclusions. Cry your eyes out. Dare to be angry. Take responsability for your well being. Move on.
    • kelly45731
      kelly45731 lindathepinda

      Posted

      I have just been trying to let it run its course ...it's just hurtful he's happy to be so nasty to me yet with other girls so fine and plesant
    • lindathepinda
      lindathepinda kelly45731

      Posted

      I can imagine that, it sucks. Time will do it's work though, as long as you keep your distance and aren't tempted to meet up with him again and again, hoping he will change his behavior towards you.

      You will feel better in a couple of weeks, it's a matter of endurance. Try to find distraction to get htrough this period and get your mind of it. Again; time will do it's work, if you give it a chance.

      Wish you all the best, take care.

  • lisalisa67
    lisalisa67 kelly45731

    Posted

    He sounds so immature and foolish. I doubt you mss him, you probably just miss the company.
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