Help, what should I do?
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I really dont know what to do to save my relationship and need advice. We have been together for 2 years and he was treated me like gold and we bought a house together. He became self emplyed 6 months ago and has since changed completley. He is constantly hassled by a woman who declares undying love to him and he says it is awkward.
He is generally stressed and has become unloving, uncaring and very unpleasant towards me. He is withdrawn and always tired. I am sure that he is depressed but says that he is fine and never admits to anything being his fault. I love him so much and want the old boyfriend back but am having trouble not getting upset which I know doesnt help. I am scared I am pushing him away. I cant do anything right. Can anyone help me?
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Tancam gilly121
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Could it be that your man is feeling guilty about all this attention from that woman and takes it out on you rather than telling her off once and for all?
It's often easier to take frustration out on those you love and trust - which logically seem completely ridiculous to some of us.
If such is the case then, perhaps you could suggest for the three of you - or with an additional neutral friend coming along too - to meet for a drink where you and your man can show her that you're solid (even if it might not feel that way right now.).
It is of course important to remind him that you love him very much, the reasons why you got the house and the commitment it meant to move into it together, the dreams and plans you had.. But, at the same time: You've got needs to. It is his job too to make it work and it is certainly his job to make you feel loved and cherished. If he puts you down in any way; you must put your foot down but hopefully, with some long honest talks, it won't come to that.
All the best
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