HERpes freaking out

So basically, ever 3 months I get blood work done and make sure they do herpes and I’ve been negative for both herpe 1/2 and I recently started talking to this dude I really like and we been having sex but 3 weeks into our sex I got tested again because it was time for another physical and it came back negative for both herpes 1/2 but I had a bad yeast infection prior to him before because I was on antibiotics and basically he’s away in school now but he’s in a program and he told me yesterday that he has had chlamydia twice which made me paranoid because I be paranoid of catching herpes or any other incurable std but I told Him did he get tested for herpes he Said he’s not sure be he never had symptoms for herpes nor has the girls have we been with but I had to educate him that it can be transmitted with or without symptoms but they tested him for std he jst isn’t sure if he got tested for herpes and I had unprotected sex with him twice but never felt no pain in my vagina but basically when he returns to school on Monday and he is going to ask them if he got tested for it and I’m hoping they say yes and if not he goin g to ask to be tested for that and I’m mad nervous I hope he doesn’t have herpes or it would ruin our relationship but I’m th type to be so paranoid and having anxiety be friends think I’m crazy and think I need help the way I constantly think about catching something but I pray he end up not having herpes I freaking out 

All my friends think I’m hypochondriac because I’m always thinking of catching something in like this with every dude literally but I’m scared of catching something in my head because he told me he has had chlamydia twice I think that he has something els and I was observing his penis and I seen no bumps but I’m still scared and I’m having Ana anxiety attack 

But basically I was scared like couple months ago I had contract herpes which is me being hypochondriac because the only symptoms I had was itching a lot and discharge but  of course I was crying myself to sleep but the dude I had slept with said he was clean and was clean of herpes 1/2 and I still was crying thinking I had something because of my itchiness and I seen little bumps on the inside of my vagina but it didn’t hurt at all and they even hurt to urinate or wipe  they were very tiny so I freaked out even more so that’s when a month ago I went to get tested and Swb/culture and found out he was a bad yeast infections and a BV which I still haven’t treated the bv yet and my obyn told me to relax and i have bad anxiety that yeast can also cause bumps but now that of course I got tested again 1 month prior after my other relationship I am now and Idk since he doesn’t know if he been tested for herpes I am freaking out ! I have no symptoms but still my anxiety is getting to me 

Yes I already got tested like 2 weeks ago and I got tested February and December , I go often to the doctor I actually have another app on the 7th so ima tell her to add again herpes 1/2 but he find out tomorrow so 

I shaved like almost a most ago and where I shaved I have a lot of ingrown hair and I pop one and pus came out with a little blood , and another one piped while I was taking a hot shower and white puss cane out and a little blood they all don’t hurt when I touch them or anything not even when I was squeezing it but they are leaving ugly scars and I they are ingrown hair cuz they are hair in them and so much hair hasn’t grown back yet and it’s been almost a month. But makes me never want to shave

Shaving doesn't cause herpes, if that's what you're thinking but I understand what you mean about scars. I haven't shaved in so long because I'm so sensitive there and it goes so lumpy/red like a plucked chook! I used veet (hair removal cream) the other today and it's worse! It went so dry and patchy and the stubby hairs are stabbing me... won't do that again.

If they were herpes white pus and blood wouldn’t come out right ? And I feel like my vagina is ugly I have so much scars and it’s mad ugly 

And the course of my hair is really curly , but it’s been almost a month and my hair is taking long to grow back and still have ingrown hair and I see them stuck inside trying to come out and still some getting infected , because I haven’t shaved in like years so I was really bushy down there and when I did shave I was rushing 

And wow lol , same with you . I guess I have the type of genital that’s really sensitive I’m jst not going to shave at all! Because I hate it , I hate these scars it looks ugly 

Nope, there wouldn't be puss. I think you're suffering like me with ingrown hairs. Mine has never been quite the same since shaving. It's always a bit dry/patchy and sometimes pimply, and when it is fully shaven it's like a plucked chook in appearance. How do girls get it so nice and smooth?

Because after it popped and puss came out it got small and leaving a mark and idk what people be doing to have those nice skin like I don’t get it , I think that it’s so easy and once I shave bumps everywhere 😩😩😩and it’s the worst because I me the most paranoid person with eveything I need to start taking medication for my anxiety’s bexause it’s not normal. It’s to the point the doctors are annoyed becasue I’m there every 3 months. Plus I had s bad yasfr infection and a bv! I didn’t even know that was possible to have both st the same time 

I'm the same, I freak out over the smallest of symptoms. I am constantly monitoring the area - there is nothing there but I feel like I'm waiting for something bad to show up!

I am the same way and keeps thinking negative after always getting negative result and I feel like I'm going crazy! I was never like this until recently. I can't even date the same. but I hope my boyfriend gets tested for it regardless if anything ill always with him because he's the most important person but its these ingrown hair that very annoying 

I pray I don't have herpes , even tho I got tested again 3 weeks ago but my biggest fear is catching herpes or HIV! I am so paranoid and check my genital 3 times daily. but I found out google makes everything worst , makes you think you have something when you don't. my doctor to stay away from google, either shell be m doctoror let google be my doctor and told me to leave It alone and yet I'm still on it goggling symptoms thinking I have herpes. I have this back pain and I already thinking thats related with herpes or it could be my anxiety causing me to think like this and it could literally all be in my head 

It's like I'm talking to myself - this is my problem as well. Even this site has be panicked sometimes when people have weird symptoms like a simple pimple on their butt that turned out to be herpes.

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