Hi there Jay!

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I had technical difficulties. Hah  Lost my password.  😭. This damn ipad.  xxoo

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    hi Dottie 😃😃😃😃

    wow its been so long .... Glad your okay ... 

    How are ya these days .. Apart from the password and ipad ...

    Jay xx

     

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      Hiya gals!  I am still alive. cheesygrin  The vertigo, dizziness, nausea is gone.  Still have dry mouth, fatigue and wobbly legs.  How long do wobbly legs last?  Temporary symptom like the others?  How are you gals doing?  xxoo
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      Hey Dottie

      Glad your better. The feeling off balance isn't fun at all. I think I have the wobbly legs sometimes. I never know what all to expect because this all is crazy!! I'm thankful for this forum though. At least we are not alone in this madness. I never in a million years expect perimenopause the symptoms. I always wonder how did the women do it way back in the days!!

      Bethsmile

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      Hi Dottie 

      ummmm, wobbly legs can keep on for a while.. Did for me. 😞

      not all the time though.. Comes and goes tyoe of thing.. Good days and bad days of it throughout peri..

      glad your feeling better with the vertigo etc 

      Jayx 

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    Hiya Dottie ,your back ,wondered where you were hiding,Glad your okay xxxx
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      This is sooo wierd...last week I swallowed my multi vitamin as I do every morning.  It's a horse pill okay?  sadIt went down my damn wind pipe!  That's never happened.  I take gummi multi vitamin now!  They are great by One a day and gives me big time peace! lol. 
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      That was nasty ,bet you had to drink load of water to get that to go down ,I've been taking a Benylin tablet that looks like you'd give a horse,watch that now after what you've said .How about me yesterday ,as I've been unwell ,I got a anaesthetic throat spray for sore throat ,I gagged as it hit back throat ,wanted to throw up ,husband ran into kitchen when he heard me .Hey not used it today oops suffer the sore throat me thinks .Us lot of gals must blinking rattle with all we take Ha Ha certainly keeps a chemist happy all our coffers we hand over for meds .glad your doing much better  Dottie xxx
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      Hi Dottie 

      oh thats not nice ... 😢

      ' down the wrong hole' splutter ...

      my chelated magnesium are big devils ... 

      You will laugh as i shove loads in my big mouth at once and swallow the lot.

      may not do that now, theres no one to pat my back ..

      restarted my Maca 5.1 today its good stuff been on it  years, but thought i would have a months break.. And I can always tell when i come off it for a while... So boosting up again.

      Maca great for peri meno thats the first thing i used years ago for my early peri years just on its own... Very good i thought ...

      its now i take all and sundry .. But it all seems to help...I feel relatively sane.

      had a couple of flushes today though.. Dam things .. Thought they had gone again... I just feel sooooo warm with in .. 😢

      and the odd flush here and there .. Mind you its been mighty warm again here today..

      jay xx

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    You've been missed so glad OK.

    Having said that how you feeling today?

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      Thanks dear trying to survive like everyone else.  I hope things are going good.  Hope I didn't miss anything interesting! 😍😍
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      Only just found this jay as for some reason not flagged up though usually is as following discussion.

      Now got a yellow vaginal discharge and feeling even sicker so had to up anti-nauseant, Dr had said start at one a day but could have up to three. Also now feels like a pair of giant hands have pelvis in vice like grip.

      Hope your headache better ad that you slept well.

      Taz xxx

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      Hi Taz

      Did you tell doc about the yellow vaginal discharge ?  

      Jay xx

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      Hi Taz

      Yellow discharge can be a sign of infection also Bacterial Vaginosis Taz.. 

      BV needs antibiotics vaginally ..

      It doesnt get better on its own, i was left untreated with this for 10 months or more and it took hold of me .. ( my first useless doc here in spain ) did a smear ( long weird story) and told me results were cancer clear, all was fine, but he didnt tell me my result said BV and he didnt give me treatment. 

      ( i have the result its in black and white) 

      My discharge wasnt smelly just white and milky, but it can be yellow, green, fishy aswell.

      Anyway as i still felt odd, hot in my body, not right etc then i went to the Gyno for well woman checks thorough,had another smear and result was BV still . ( Cytolytic Vaginosis and thrush) and i was treated with vaginal clindamycin ovules followed by laurimic thrush ovules ..

      BV sounds awful buts its not an STD it is a change in flora etc build up too much ..

      Vaginal PH too high ..

      Jay xx 

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      Hi Taz never ending,goes from one thing to another,meds can bring that ,so I've read ,and you've had fair bit of late ,so many get it ,think meno changes a big factor .lets know what you get given to you .xxxx
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      Hi Taz 😍 I have to try and catch up on all the gossip 😳😀😘
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      Will do and am also going to speak to her about night sweats that are so intense they wake me up and keep me awake. Hot flushes are so intense I steam my glasses up so will mention them too.
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      Hi Taz 

      i am okay thanks hun..

      just having other things bothering me right now ..

      ( non menopause ) 😃

      so called professionals not being professional ... 

      that is life ... full of prats 

      jay xx

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      Glad to hear OK in self but not about non-professionalism. Life as you say but hey wouldn't it be nice if people behaved properly and did their jobs as they should.

      Taz xxx

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      Hi Taz 

      i am just googling how to wring a incompetant solicitors neck

      😃

      jay xx

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      Both rags only differance is one a toe-rag smile
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      Hi Taz 

      a wet bath towel better it needs more effort 😃

      got telly on and this women reckons shes been aducted by aliens ..

      Jeeeeez .. i have some of what shes on... hahahahahahaha

      hope its not a menopause symptom hahahahaha

      Jay xx 

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      Hi Taz 

      yes keep your windows shut ' the aliens are coming ' 

      what a load of old twoddle..

      they would soon put me back 😃

      i will wring their little necks today

      ps ..

      if i am not on here tomorrow i tempted fate and was taken by the aliens 

      😃

      jay xx

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      Same here and no doubt be returned as bits missing so faulty smile
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      I love to hear you talk Jayneejay  ! smile your so funnysmile

      Beth

      We have aliens???

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      Now that's funny ,maybe I should become De - teetotal ,I'll join you  Jay ,get bottle open .Where does she live ? la la land ,mind you some are convinced were not alone ,sleep with one eye open . xxx
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      Hi Beth

      i was referring to a woman on TV how said she was taken by aliens 

      personally i think shes lost the plot .. 😳

      jay xx

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      Oh ok..... smile I was messing with you!! I'm feeling little blah so I just need a laughsmile

      Beth

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      Hi Marlene

      hahaha i dont drink.. so all bottles closed here ..

      talking of sleeping with one eye open, i tend to have both eyes open as dont dam well sleep very well ..

      oh my lord i am a moany one today ..

      jay xx

       

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      Hi Taz

      glad your seeing the Doc tomorrow as you need checking out hun..

      jay xx

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      Didn't ever think say this but looking forward to it as feel could get somewhere
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      Hi Taz

      yeah i hope so, tell Doc everything thats occurring ..

      blimey i am roasting.. its hot here again.. 28 degrees ..

      seems to get hotter in spain in the early evening ...

      jay xx

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      Only 13 degrees here so frozen. That is when not sweating or having a flush.

      Can't find a compromise clothing wise that works sad

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      Hi Taz 

      oh hun i so feel for you, your menopause is a sudden shock, instant, where as mine has been a steady decline .... 

      i must say though my flushes i only had in early peri, and night sweats in early peri, but the flushes came back post meno, had a summer of plenty of flushes here in the heat.. 😳

      had a couple yesterday.. but .. for me just post meno, i feel so warm inside, all the time, weird.. hate putting a top on, hate it, have to though when i go out wringing peoples necks 😃 hehehehehe

      shorts and bra me everyday.. and still i am warm.. AC on and off all day..

      my son said he was cold other day and i thought he was bonkers ..

      we went out saturday and he said oh its cool today with his layers on .. 

      it was really warm for me ..

      must be just me i think..

      jay xx

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      Main problem is not knowing what could expect which is why your 66 list so good.

      As you know not even told would go into the menopause let alone what that could mean 😔

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      Hi Taz 

      i know hun... they think all women know i suppose, when they dont ..

       

      its that doctor / patient - bad communication thing again ..

      everything  should be explained ... whether a woman knows or not..

      i was advised to have a hysterectomy when i had very bad endometriosis, it was they can laser it off, but it would return with in 5 years, so told me to have a full Hyster.. luckily i knew about menopause and hysterectomy and i said no, big fat NO.. i will try the laser, i had the laser and my endometriosis never came back, ever .. it was so severe the adhesions i couldnt walk straight the pulling in my pelvis was awful .. i had hours of surgery to laser it all off. 

      moral of the story..

      i would of had a hysterectomy done for no reason aged 31 ....if i had said okay do it ..

      i take no notice of what they say these days, seems they want to quickest fix for them and bye bye .. 

      just lately in my experience here where i live i have needed second opinions as the first dentist was bad and said nothing wrong.. when it was ..

      and my Dutch Doctors was useless, in more ways than one and ledt me with an untreated BV he knew i had and said all was fine ..

      so we live and learn ..

      jay xx

       

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      At moment wish, for a number of reasons, that given that option but again as you know nothing at all was discussed.

      Agree with you about expecting us to know, told cyst on each ovary then asked what I wanted but given no choices and only knew what little had read 

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