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Hi all I'm a 38yo male, I had 2 sexual incident with 2 different female.. I had sex with a female in 2013 october with condom after ejaculated I throw away the condom. but she Insisted we go again this time without condom I went ahead and did, after about 20 second I thought to my self wat am I doing and pulled out.
Because of this I always use condom wit my kids mother whom I lived wit until a year had past (2014 november).
HoweverI was having an affair with another girl during 2014. during sex the condom break i imediatley jumped up and wash off my penis wasnt thinking much of it because a peice of the condom were still on the top of my penis. Now in 2015 my spouse and I started to lost weight small bumps coming up in her face we both are stressing out she went and got a test done in february and i did one in march both results were negative, the stress level were still high so I went and did another test in April the results came back negative as well, but these little dark bumps are there on the side of her face and some small dark mole looking spots I'm not use to seeing on my fore harm and on my belly... Could it be I contracted the virus from 2013 after a year and six month could the result still be negative.. With the second female I did the test six month after the incident.. Any help would be appreciated. I'm not handling this well..PLZ HELP
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feelbroken rohan01219
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You do realize condoms do not give you full protection from HPV and herpes right? So you're risking bringing that back to her as well. Have you fiud been testes for syphilis?
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feelbroken rohan01219
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Can you take a picture of these bumps?
At this point the chance of you both coming back w false negatives this far down the line is very unlikely. It is rare for someone to not have produced antibody responses this much time after infection and not a lot of cases have been recorded. I will ask archemeda to comment on this, because he's a doctor and would know better in this subject very well. I'm just versed well in herpes and HPV.
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archemedes rohan01219
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Your actual test results may well be misleading unless you had a full spectrum STI checkup performed.
Usually a test for both types of Herpes is not  included in STI checkups unless you have specifically requested it, so if you are unsure of whether this was done or not then you should both go for a complete retest (including Herpes) as soon as possible.
It is unlikely that you are suffering from HIV or a Syphilis infection as those are now included in all STI tests, unless of course there has been some exposure after the the initial incident.
This only leaves some unrelated condition unrelated to your sexual activity that has not yet been considered such as Measles or an allergic reaction perhaps.
Do you have any other symptoms such as a high temperature, sore throat, cough, or anything else you can think of that has appeared since you have noticed these mole-like spots.
Can you also please advise what ethnic group you and your wife belong to eg Caucasian, Aftrican-American etc., and if you have recently travelled to another country?
As you are clearly very worried, can you please tell me why you have not yet been to see your own doctor about this, as worrying is to a very large extent counter-productive.
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rohan01219 archemedes
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Yes we go to our doctor at least three different doctors they all saying these symptoms are because we are stressed. Could this be... We weren't eating as much because the stress level was so high and this started in February of this year. I'm worried doc..
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feelbroken rohan01219
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How long have you guys had these symptoms?
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archemedes
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It those results come back negative as I suspect they will, then your symptoms are clearly due to something else, which is either partially or totally associated with an anxiety condition.
You have not mentioned if you and/or your wife have been using recreational drugs, and you have not said if either of you has travelled overseas recently.
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rohan01219 archemedes
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I have also gotten pressure pills and she got some pills for acid reflux... Which we still are taking.
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