How can i support my partner with generalised anxiety disorder?
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His disorder affects every aspect of our lives, his patience with me and the kids, inability to socialise, we can make major purchases or take what are calculated risks and move forward in life.
He has been for counselling, has the tools, but says his job is too busy to put them into practice. Eg. Eats rubbish for lunch everyday on the go. He drinks to subside the symptoms, it impedes on our sex life, he is disinterested in participating in life in general.
He will not take meds - its not up for discussion. If feel i am enabling him by hanging in there even though i know he has the tools and isnt or cant use them. But to walk away would leave him with no reason to continue and i cant look after him this way. He needs to help him self...how can i make him seethis?
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richard89308
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try not to be too pushy or you will be pushing him out. He needs to accept first he has a problem and secondly what he will do to sort it. Patience and understanding should prevail. I know that this is going to be hard but pushing him into a decision over medication is a big step for him to take.
Good luck
Richard
malcolm47
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Yes like Richard days,takes time and patience,but he will come around,I know because I was like that myself ,and am still lucky to have my wife and family,but just hang loose and don't let yourself get dragged down with it all,I think what changed me was that I saw that the only person I was hurting was myself and you can only take so much hurt.
Just do your own thing,and live your life.
Best Regards Malc
athol91131
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ps. It might help if you talked to your doctor about it and get some support for yourself.
elizabeth70142
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lara_80526
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Thanks again for sharing your thoughts and advice. x