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I APOLOGIZE TO ONE AND ALL

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kenneth1955
kenneth1955

Earlier today I said something I should not have said with out more information.  I apologize to Billart for saying that his doctor lied to him. That was wrong of me. But that was only my opinion.  I feel very strong about men having to have there prostate cut out just to pee better when something less evasive would work the same.  Major surgery should never be the only opinion.  Now all you guys on here that have been to a doctor do know that 50 % of them do not tell you everything that is going to happen. Most of the time they tell you only what they feel you need to know or they just a void your question.  You get That rarely happens or I don't know what went wrong I'm the doctor and I know best.  But that is life.  We should never give up on our body's.  We should have second opinion before anything is done.  To many things are taking from us in life.  I have had my appendix, gallbladder part of my stomach taking out, Had the lift side of my heart burn away.  Still have a heart monitor in my chest.  These things I had no control over it.  But no doctor is going to tell me that I have to have my prostate cut away just to pee better.  That is where it stop.  I still can control that.  Life is to short to give up everything.  I will watch what I say and may god help us all  Ken 

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  • mark02906
    mark02906 kenneth1955

    Posted

    Ken has helped a lot of people in this forum.  If he stumbled on this one, we can forgive him.  I appreciate those on this forum who have educated me on the different choices we have to control BPH.  Some of us have an easy path and some do not.  But, in sharing our stories, we can help each other.  And, from my perspective, even if our choice is not optimum, maybe our experience will help our sons and grandsons get better treatment.
    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 mark02906

      Posted

      Thank you Mark.  We do have to look for the future.  And hopefully things will get better for our sons.  God welling   Ken
  • surfman012
    surfman012 kenneth1955

    Posted

    Yep, occasionally we all make a mistake, and an apology always does the trick, i am sure Billart holds no grudge, the info on this site is very valuable to us all, ........sometimes the passion conflicts with facts, but it all helps in the end!!! discussion is the important factor here every time..Keep on keeping on!!, regards to all Syd

    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 surfman012

      Posted

      Thanks Syd.  Yes Bill and I are good.  And it true I care about everyone on here.  Even if I don't know you.  I just don't want any man to have a procedure that they did not get the right procedure.  Some doctor are like car dealer's They can talk you into anything.  Life is to short to give up on anything. Love you all and have a great day  Ken   

  • JerryR
    JerryR kenneth1955

    Posted

    Agree with what you say about doctor's candor.  Thank God for forums like patient.info.  Good luck to you Kenneth.

    • phil25323
      phil25323 JerryR

      Posted

      Ken certainly is an asset to this forum. He is sincere and really cares about others that are deciding which of the many procedures available. 

  • jay111
    jay111 kenneth1955

    Posted

    Great post Ken... anyone here that has been reading for a while knows that you always have the best intentions and wish the best for one and all. Cheers

     

    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 jay111

      Posted

      Thanks Jay.  I just want the best for everyone and them to think before they do anything.  God Bless  Ken
  • ted75005
    ted75005 kenneth1955

    Posted

    Ken - as all the others have said and feel, your apology is from the heart. All of us say things that we second guess and expressing that, makes us all feel good as we know it does for you. Keep up the great work.
    • kenneth1955
      kenneth1955 ted75005

      Posted

      Thank you Ted.  I try not to get to upset.  We all have our own concern.  But I don't want anyone to do anything that they have not researched or are ready for the out come.  God bless and I hope all work out for you  Ken

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