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I can't cry and my friends are worried about me

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Sasha140
Sasha140

Hi, lately I've been noticing that I've stopped feeling bad about things that I should feel bad about. Things like death or someone getting hurt, for some reason, makes me smile and I can't help it. Ive started to really notice how I don't feel anything towards things that I should. enjoying and smiling at something like that isn't normal and I don't understand why. My friends have been going on about for months.

And I've stopped being able to cry. I just cant. my friends have called me psycho because of how I think and act. I don't know what to do.

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  • zmariux
    zmariux Sasha140

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    Hi,

    There are few points I'm going to try to make.

    You should realize that we are different people and we all feel the world different. Let's say that what I see red, might not be the same with what you see red,, but we both call it red, because that's what we learned.

    what I'm trying to say is that people react different. The fact that you smile, it's not necessarily bad. Keep in mind that for some people at funerals they it's even worst. Some of them laugh when they are too sad.

    It's normal to laugh or smile. It means that your mind doesn't understand what's going on and doesn't know how to react (but it knows that it has to do something to relieve the stress)

    The fact that you feel less, could mean many things, such as: probably a stressful life or a life without stress and something came out and your mind doesn't know yet how to cope with it; or probably your personality is developing more and you find out that don't give a f* with many things around you; or other reasons.

    Keep in mind that we all are different people, different pleasures, different dislikes, different opinions and the fact that you are different, it means that you are only unique. That's nor good or bad.

    If you truly consider that it's something wrong (by your believes, not by what your friends said), you can share this with a medic or a psychologist, to tell him that you don't know if it's truly something off or if it's normal. A second opinion never hurt .

    Have a nice weekend!

  • zmariux
    zmariux Sasha140

    Posted

    "some people at funerals react* even worst"

    Sorry. i was sleepy when I wrote it.

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