I don’t feel happy
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It’s been two months since my breakup with my girlfriend.. I’ve gone on a couple of dates with a guy but ended it with him cause... I can’t help but not feel that connection I did with my ex. I’m wanting to go out with another guy but I’m afraid. I’ve recently been afraid of not being in a relationship but once I’m in something I get scared. I’m not happy... I want my ex back. She still tells me that she loves me. I still love her... we broke up cause she’s been suicidal lately and she wants the time to focus on herself and cause she can’t handle a relationship. We dated for a year and a half... best relationship I’ve ever been in.... I’m trting so hard to be there for her as a friend but it’s painful. She wants to get back together in the future but not rn... rn she wants time to focus on herself and once she’s better she still wants to see other people then me... so I’m trying to get myself out there but I don’t feel as safe as I do in another persons arms as I did in here... I don’t feel as complete and it rips me apart... I... I don’t know what to do... I’ve been taking Zoloft for three months now which is helping but... I’m just not happy... I want her. I hurt...
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Guest shay62665
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I'm sorry you're going through this all. Let her have her time focusing on herself, for it would make her happier. I know it is hard to let a loved one go, but it's easy when it makes them happier. Since you're friends with her now, don't try too hard to get close again, because she wouldn't like it. Once she regains herself, let her choose the guy she wants first, it may be you. After she regains herself, make her feel appreciated and loved. If she leans to another guy, perhaps you should let go. Because perhaps she wants to change things. However, don't let that affect. Maybe you're not yet ready to move on, so have some time for yourself. It is okay to still love her, but remember to love yourself more. Maybe she isn't the one for you if she wants to let go. Perhaps you should move on, as harsh as it sounds... just move on