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I am a 25 year old woman who never had a long-term/serious relationship. I used to push the good guys away. And, the ones who I had feelings to, ended up breaking my heart everytime. The last relationship i had ( 3 years ago ) was the most heartbreaking for me, because i was in love and it turned out he couldn't love me the same. Since then, I couldn't have feelings for anyone again. After 2 years of being single, I met this amazing guy who's now my bf. He really cares about me and is really into me, however, I am not sure of my feelings towards him. I care about him as a person but I don't think im attracted to him or has the same feelings he has towards me . I am with him because he's a great companion,a great partner and I believe he's perfect for me. He brings positivity to my life. He's my best friend who I can tell him everything and he's always there for me. I just don't understand why I can't love him. Sometimes, i feel i should break up with him soon so that I won't hurt him later , but I convince myself that oneday my feelings will change. I really don't know what to do about that. I dont wana hurt his feelings and i dont wana lose him either, because i really got used to his existence in my life. Nothing is really exciting me anymore. I feel my heart has became rigid over the years and i m not sure what to do about that.
I hope you could help me understand my situation
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