I don't know if I'm depressed or not I'm scared to talk about it
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So I have been feeling this way for 2 years and a half maybe, I don't think anynody cares but I thought giving this a try..The thing is that lately I'm habing thoughts of ending my life because I'm just so worthless I believe that there's no point in life! And then I feel guilty because I'm lucky to have a family and a bed to sleep at night and there are much more important things to worry about..Please be kind I feel so sad and empty
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UK-Ven-medicate irene_84309
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You need to talk to your GP/Doctor and get them to help. I m not sure where you are based Irene but there are a number of place you can get help in the UK
deirdre._03652 irene_84309
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UK-Ven-medicate irene_84309
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Its about how you can sort it not anyone else
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celtics irene_84309
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hypercat irene_84309
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Often those closest to you don't understand but you might find others who do. That's what I have found anyway. Having depression is nothing to be ashamed of and your doctor will have heard all this a thousand times. It is not your fault so please don't run yourself down. It is an illness like any other and needs treatment. After all if you broke your leg you would look for treatment wouldn't you?
Not all doctors are very sympathetic though so try and pick one you think would be (I have found generally female doctors best at this). If the first one you talk to isn't helpful then please don't give up and see another one. The first one I saw told me he thought I was an 'uptight' person and just gave me sleep leaflets. I did eventually go to see another doctor who was great. Stay with us here coz this is a great site and we all understand mental health issues and we will support and help you all we can. You are no longer alone my love. Let us know how you get on please. Bev x
jemimah88932 irene_84309
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gillian20097 irene_84309
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Please don't worry or feel bad. It doesn't matter what or who you have in your life...depression has no preference....it can hit anybody. Just look at all these film stars who seemingly have everything but they still succumb to it. It is one of those things that can effect anybody,regardless.
So many of us have felt just the way you are feeling and it may take time to get over but the majority of people work through and beat it.
Im not sure if you have spoken to your doctor but just having the support and reassurance off a professional person can sometimes help. You are not alone and the feelings will pass.
If you can start and end your day with some positive self talk,that will work wonders. It may seem false and you may not believe what you are telling yourself at first but eventually your mind will recognise the words as positives.
Set yourself little goals..it doesn't have to be anything major or overwhelming...just something as simple as making the bed each day to start with...eventually your mind will recognise all these actions as the norm and as positives....Build up at your own pace. Find the right balance between relaxation and activity and find somebody who you can have a good chat with,even if it's just once a week. Get all them thoughts and feelings out there. I wish you all the best and wants you to know that we are here for you xx
deirdre._03652 gillian20097
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Irene, please,please look after your and also be kind to yourself, life will get better, never give up, we all need and deserve peace of mind.d and a joyous heart, ... best wishes to all on all these forums.... the support offered is SECOND TO NONE,,, LOVE TO ALL. Deirdre, xx
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kelly01424 irene_84309
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He is a loving, forgiving and happy God who will soon end all pain,
suffering and unhappiness. Don't give up on your life and the things you can do now and the amazing future you can have.
Confide your troubles, worries to Him and pray for peace and truth. It may feel impossible now but your efforts to keep going will be worth it. Take each day one at a time, little goals, think positively. Take care of your health.