I don't know what to do
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Hi, I'm only a young teenager and I have been feeling really nauseous and scared for about 3 months and my Mum and Dad think that it is just my nerves and say I have anxiety. But I always feel like crying and being sick. We haven't been to the doctors about this yet because my Mum is too embarrassed. I'm also scared about growing up as I don't want anything to change and I don't want to leave home to go to university as I'm scared that something will happen to my family especially my Granny as she means the world to me. Please, help me if you know what is happening to me.
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el90680 jennifer30696
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tess33005 jennifer30696
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Darling, can't you go to the doctor without your mum?
I don't suppose there's any chance you're pregnant, is there, sweetheart?
If you're quite sure there's no possibility of pregnancy, please be assured that LOADS of young people feel like you - it's a shock, thinking about the grown-up future. Your doctor can help. I don't know why your mum is embarrassed?
You can send me a Private Message if you want. I'm a nurse and have had four children, all grown up now, and I was a very anxious teenager myself. So bad that I had to be taken to school every day by my dad because I was even scared of the bus journey. My Head Teacher was brilliant. My parents talked to her and she told me to come to her office whenever I was worried, so I did, and she always just let me sit there, reading a book, and chatting to me.
Gradually the fear faded by itself, but I'm sure my Head Teacher's understanding had a lot to do with it. If you want to send me a (or anyone) a Private Message just click on the envelope icon under the sendere's name. xxxxxxx Tess
dyslexic15020 jennifer30696
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lynnann48124 jennifer30696
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Ok This is Generalized Anxiety. 1.you are stressing on change.2.Your Granny is on your mind you are thinking about her passing away.am I right? I also did this.lost my mom.at 81.my mind would race at night.All kind of morbid thoughts.mostly bad .of dying.now my nausea is so bad.I take Zofran.It Helps.but Im sweating.in morning.Ive gone threw what u are going threw.Ok try to get your mind on something you like to do.I know its hard.I believe youll outgrow them I did. after I left my 1st bad relationship.id call my mom screaming mom Im dying" " I cant breath" did not have one for 10 yrs.then they came back.as I talk to you im in a attack now. hugz stay in Touch Please.theres deep breathing etc.but for me nothing works unless i go to sleep and it all begins again. much love.so this IS what is wrong
vivie91 jennifer30696
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Hey Jennifer,
Given the feelings you're having about leaving school and your Granny, and the fact that you're at a stressful point in your life, it is totally understandable that you're feeling sick, scared and on edge. You are most likely experiencing anxiety.
Although it is a common thing to go through, that doesn't mean it should take over your life the way it seems to be doing. Please go and see your doctor - your Mum should NOT be embarrassed, there is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about! Anxiety is a normal response to stressful points in your life, and is something that millions of people suffer from.
See your doctor, and they will be able to re-assure you and recommend what steps you should take to start feeling like yourself again xxx
lee12629 jennifer30696
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