I have had urinary problems for about 4 months total I am a male.

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3 to 4 months ago I started getting pain in my right side and my genitals then I had a weak stream when I would pee after a couple days urinating became difficult and painful kind of a burning sensation then it became very painful and the pain in my side got worse range from a 3 to 10 in pain that would last anywhere from 5 minutes to 3 to 4 hours all day everyday when the pain would subside I would still feel a slight irritation on my right side I recently went to the ER twice because I felt my life is in danger now and I was stubborn....I thought the pain would go away and I would be okay now it's been 4 months I've been to the ER twice in the past 3 weeks I am extremely tough and struggling the pain is bad I am crying literally for help the ER would send me home with antibiotics antibiotics help take the urinary problems away but there is a slight pain always there off and on but very minimal while I'm on antibiotics when I am off the antibiotics within 2 days my urine is cloudy again the pain is worse on my right side off and on all day everyday my genitals very rarely are sore to the touch but they get sore couple days ago my lymph node on my left side of my neck swollen up under my beard and it was really tender to the touch like a bruise when I went to the ER they did a CT scan and found one 5mm spot on my lower right lung and a lesion or spot on my liver I don't know if that's associated with my problems or if it's normal they have not gave me any straightforward answers and they have sent me to a specialist and that specialist sent me to another specialist which I haven't seen yet I will see on December 21st I am really afraid I am going to get no help until it's too late it's been 4 months and I'm afraid the infection of some sort or whatever it will spread into my blood and become fatal because the hospital and the specialist say I do not have a UTI or bladder stone or kidney stone they cannot find anything wrong with me and I feel that time is running out right now I'm deciding on going back to the ER I am extremely depressed and stressed over this life is precious and I am afraid for my life I have always been healthy I never get sick I used to be very healthy and workout I have lost a lot of weight just due to life being busy and not being able to eat as much and that might be a cause but I have lost Terminus amount of weight if anybody can give me suggestions or send me to the right doctor I am begging and crying for help I will give a doctor all my money in my bank anything I have my house my dog's anything I am so desperate for help right now I feel like I'm not important and I'm being judged by tattoos insurance or something because I have never been denied or had no answers I know that's not fact but I just can't figure out why I'm not getting the proper care do I need to lie and exaggerate my problems to make them look further or do I keep playing the entrepreneur business of the greedy health System I need a good doctor that cares to help me and talk to me and answer some questions please this is very depressing and I love life my biggest fear is to die from cancer and I need answers straightforward please help

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    First of all u are living in fear, an fear is consuming you an stress is pulling you DOWN. Dude your own fear is killing you, I've been dealing with bladder issues for a year now. If your eating as normal an still losing weight you have a problem, but ur not. Your busy an don't have time to eat would cause any normal person to lose weight. You go too church? If not go to a good Christian church that teaches on salvation and not rituals, they can help you. Those people oddly know a bit of physiology an do great with helping you past your fear. Anyways STOP worrying.

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      Thank you so much I'm honestly relived to here it from more than a couple people that I'm stressing and worrying to much it really helps me understand my problems better because I am a worry worm especially with health. I really appreciate your response and advice....today I am seeing a specialist so let's see what they have to say.

      Thank you so much


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    Doctors in ER aren't in the business of diagnosing their patients, they only have time to patch them up and send them home.

    Hopefully your next "specialist" next Wednesday will be the right one for you and be able to get to the bottom of things.

    I wish you well for the future

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    Make sure you don't linger in dirty bathtub water and take showers instead

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