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i was looking up tbd and ended up here . Ive always had really low self esteem because of my breasts. ive always hid this . never told my mom or my three daughters. who thankfully all have normal breasts. i have NEVER talked about this with anyone . The only person who knows is my husband who is the most awesomest man in the world but i have never discussed it with him because i feel so ashamed and embaressed. his love and support is the only reason why i havent researched this sooner. but no matter what I'm still extremely insecure and feel like he deserves better. then to make matters worse almost 3 yrs ago now I was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes . I've always suffered from anxiety & depression but lately these have become very severe. I'm scared and feel like I'm going crazy. is any of this normal ?
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carmela45627 shaunalynn
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Are you seeing a professional for the anxiety and depression? I have type 2 diabetes. It’s very hard to deal with.
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Don’t forget, the professionals can help you.
nigel45109 shaunalynn
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Hello, I've had hang ups about various body parts in the past, particularly when I started going bald. When you concentrate on body issues, I think it's down to symptoms of anxiety and depression, rather than the perceived issue causing the anxiety or depression. With me, when the anxiety and depression go, my perceived issues disappear. You have a loving husband, who obviously has no issues with your appearance. Concentrate on getting the anxiety and depression sorted, if you can. All the best.
wayne1962 shaunalynn
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Hi shaunalynn - sorry to read of your difficulties. I would agree wholeheartedly with nigel145109 - we tend to fixate on perceived physical "abnormalities" when we are depressed, and can cripple our lives thinking that this issue is the cause of our situation. On the other hand, if the issue of your breasts causes you constant worry and feelings of inadequacy, would surgical intervention help matters? If so, explore that, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.
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