I'm depressed what should I do

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My girlfriend well fiancé and I had an argument and I'm feeling horrible. I had a break down and all she did was stand there. I love her and she loves me but I don't know what to do. I want to go to a hospital to get away from everything. Hospitals seem to relax me. 

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    Hi Bob - arguments in relationships are all part of the landscape. Why did you break down? Have you a depressive disorder, and if so, have you received treatment for it?
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      Hi Bob,

      If you are thinking about going to the hospital...........GO !

      You sound like you are not coping very well right now ,the medical professionals are trained to help you sort things out.

      You say you are taking treatment. What medications are you on and for how long?

      I know from my own experience that sometimes our bodies can adapt to medications that were once very effective and suddenly they do nothing to help us. Perhaps you need to talk to a Dr about changing the medication or dosage, just a thought. I am not a Dr or medical professional just a fellow fighter.

      Anyhow, keep up fighting this illness.

      virtual hugs

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    What happened?  Please explain what you mean by a breakdown.  I don't know how to reply to your post without more info.  If I may ask, what did you argue about?

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     Even if it's hard, tell her if you struggle with depression. Tell her you're feelings. If she truly loves you, she will except you for who you are and do her best to help you the way she knows how. Maybe she didn't know how to help you. I suggest telling her how to help you if these things happen again. Also,  fights happene every now and then. It sucks but they happen. I feel pretty bad when I get in fights with other people. We are here to support  you the best we can.

    Best wishes, Zoe.   

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