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I never desire sex and don’t enjoy it, why?

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Althylove
Althylove

I don’t ever desire sex, sometimes I get a little desire but when I am having sex, I wish it would end fast and do not enjoy it. I have to pretend I enjoy it to make my partner happy. It really sucks and I hate it. It’s like having to go to work when he comes on to me, the idea just tired me out.  I just really have no desire at all. I don’t even desire to have an orgasm most of the time, when I do, I want it over fast. I mean, it feels good and all but I don’t desire it, I rarely please myself and tell my hubby I don’t feel like it whenever he tries to go down on Me, because I know it will take a long time to finish. Is there anything I can do to make me desire it? Any herbs? Foods? Anything? I am only 35, I should be at my sexual peek.

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  • elizabeth_40978
    elizabeth_40978 Althylove

    Posted

    I’m the exact same but 22😩😩💔

    • Althylove
      Althylove elizabeth_40978

      Posted

      Guess you better get used to faking like you like it. I have had to fake for a long time now.
    • Althylove
      Althylove aahmad6969

      Posted

      It does boring and hardly even feels good. HE could be having sex with my hand, it doesn’t feel much different to me. Sometimes it feels good the first minute then goes away. Sometimes it’s uncomfortable and can’t hurt a little if he goes too deep
  • kellyshane
    kellyshane Althylove

    Posted

    Don't you think that it might be something psychological? You might need to see a doctor. You don't have to fake its your body and your temple 

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