I've been agrophobic for 20 years and dealt with anxiety panicking and now menuapause
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I've got 2 disabled sons who are adults but need me so much and the menuapause is making me not function as I should and added to that I have a partner who drinks constantly and scares me into panic.... Any advice please I just can't talk to anyone as he watches my every move so I have no one ....
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rachel87590
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samantha42264 rachel87590
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I don't know Rachel, I've never been in that situation. Menopause is bad, but having a partner like that must be absolutely horrible. Somehow you have to get away from him. Hopefully someone on here can advise you better, but my heart goes out to you.
rachel87590 samantha42264
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Indifferent rachel87590
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Rachel I am so sorry to hear about your life with your husband. I know it is very hard to leave a guy like that...I've been through it many years ago now and my daughter just finally left her abuser of 8 years a few months ago.
Can I ask how he scares you into going back to him? I know they all have thier tactics...they know what gets us most and they use it...but most times it is a whole lot of talk. They don't typically break any laws that would land them in jail...put it that way.
Have you ever called the police on him? If so, what happened? Did he somehow convince you to not press charges?
Just trying to get a feel for where you are at so we can hopefully help you get stronger. You definitely don't deserve that treatment.
rachel87590 Indifferent
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ImagineOneDay rachel87590
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rachel87590 ImagineOneDay
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rachel87590 ImagineOneDay
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lucy48229 rachel87590
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Bassilli rachel87590
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lori93950 rachel87590
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So sorry you are going through so much ... you’re not alone I’m going through hell too and when your freedom is taken away from you with agoraphobia it’s just awful .
Hang in there !!
rachel87590 lori93950
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mrs_susan74280 lori93950
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rachel87590 mrs_susan74280
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rachel87590 lori93950
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The HRT will not get you away from an abusive situation. You will need help from your brothers and the police for that. Your husband abuses you because he is a weak man. Put him up against your brothers and there will be no fight...beleive me. He will run with his ugly little tail between his legs. Men like that dont usually stand up to other men. They only abuse the vulnerable. Once he realizes that you have had enough and you have your brothers and the police standing behind you he won't have any fight in him.
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