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I am 18 and have just came to university. I was hoping that due to a fresh start I would stray from my old ways of being nervous and shy, unable to talk to people. However, that hasn't been the case. I live in halls and have not been able to make conversation with my flat mates, I see this as a big problem because I wanted to make new friends and try to come out my shell. Generally I can't speak to girls more so than boys, I get extremely insecure and embarrased worried I will say the wrong things. It doesn't help that the girls in my flat are both very attractive. However, I am still unable to talk to them, scared to even leave my room, worried I will accidentally run into them and have an awkward converstion which makes them think I am weird. I just don't know what to do it's taking a big dig on me, as I am starting to see myself as a loser who can't do things every normal person is able to do. Please, I just need some advice as to what to do, I generally like all the people here but they are starting to think I dislike them because I won't talk to them. Anyways, any advice would help.
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