I'VE HAD ENOUGH!!!!!

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i have completely lost all motivation with the pills! i have hadthem before and all i lost in 6 months was a 12 stone which went straight back on in 2 months!!!

i have had enough!!!! i just want to be thin!!!! is that so much to ask?!?!? i have done the diets, i have done the tea, i've done the vinegar, i've done all the pills i can and still nothing!!!! i give up!!!!!

i hate how you cna get some people that can eat what they want and still lose or don't even gain weight!!!! THEY HAVE NO IDEA HOW HARD THIS IS!!! all they do is pass judgement and blame us for our wieght. in somecases yeah it is peoples fault but i honest have done nothing but eat right!!! i exercise everyday buy cycling and still i am fat!!!!

well sod it!!! i want lipo or a gastric band/ball.

i feel guilty every time i eat! i shouldn't feel this way but i do!!! i am in such a dark place right now because of my weight and i am just really at my wits end now sad

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    Oh Cat I really feel for you Please don't give up. i agree with you it's not fair that lots of people can eat anything and not put weight on my husband and two of my sons are amongst them. There are people I know at work that do very little exercise, drive to work, sit around alot. go home and sit watching tv for hours and complain about being fat when they are thin. It's not fair but I've come to the conclusion that we have to work really hard.

    Remember what you want and set yourself small achievable goals.

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    Aww i feel for you and know exactly wot your going through, i have been on them for 6 months now and lost 1st 10 lbs - after my ;last weigh in and puttin on i have become very disheartened, and felt guilty as hell for wanting to eat just about everything!!

    Sooooo....i am having the week off the tabs....i want to kick start my body, get my mind in a GOOD place.....have a few treats with out killing myself with guilt........then start back detoxing for mon, tues, wed, then start back the tabs on thurs!!!

    SO perhaps take som time....get your head in the right place and try again????

    I wish you luck :D

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    I have too given up. I have been told by my healthcare assistant to give them a rest till I am in the right frame of mind. I have been struggling financially, and to be honest I have been more concerned on how to feed my family more than buying salad. Low fat stuff is expensive and offers are more appealling.

    I am going to try again in a few months when things I hope will be better for me. Good luck with your decision. I to find it hard I don't loose very well tablets or no tablets.

    love to you x

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    thank you all for your experiences and ideas of help. i have my weigh in on friday and to be honest i am dreading it. even though i am still religiously taking the tablet i am having no oily side effects (thank god) but however i have eaten bad food but still no side effect..... this leads me to question are they even working?? i don't expect to lose anything as i just don't feel like i have. i am gonna ask about hypnotherapy when i see my doc on friday..... they can make you think that you have a gastric band in place to reduce your appetite.

    i really am at the point now were my mentasl health is getting affect as i hate going out as i feel everyone is looking at me. i am 5'7 and a size 16-18 which i know people say is average these days but i still look fat.

    oooohhh well .... will let you all know how it goes after the weigh in.....

    xxxxxx

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