i want an opinion...
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i donot know what to say.... i just hate everyone responsible for what me and my family is facing... you must be thinking that i'm talking about someone not part of family but here comes the bitter truth that they are my so called family... they are so mean and selfish.. they left us when we needed them the most,... i dont know if this is right and wrong... but i'm getting emotionally empty... now i feel nothing for them , neither hate nor love... its like their existance doesnot matter to me.... i'm not concerned about them... it's about me... i dont know but me feeling nothing is also consuming me... i dont like to socialize... i cant trust someone(i think its natural when you are betrayed by your owns) i have zero tolerance for diplomacy... its not like that i'm emotionally completely drained... i love being loved and i do appreciate little things that my family( my parents and siblings which i only care about ) do for me... ... but i know that something is wrong with me.. i'm not happy... my soul is lacking inner peace.. i want to be happy but whenever i try to do something that make me happy somthing unpleasant comes up....!!
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katehippy eman41297
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Who's gone where Eman? Do you want to talk more?
Hoping you're feeling ok xx
eman41297 katehippy
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katehippy eman41297
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Yeah, family can make you really mad - they are supposed to love you no matter what but they are people, and people are selfish sometimes. My family is not great... Parents went away when I needed them, to another country! I think this is always how it will be with these relatives, you can't change the bad ones, but you can appreciate the good ones more than ever xxx
eman41297 katehippy
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katehippy eman41297
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Are you busy? You need to keep busy! You might be having too much time to think about bad things....? xxx
eman41297 katehippy
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that's the issue... i have stopped trusting people with my secrets... i just cant let anyone to think of how vulnerable i am... i want them to see me as strong person..
katehippy eman41297
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Are you the oldest of your siblings - is that why you have to appear strong?
It might be a good thing for someone to understand why you are withdrawing from the family (people know something is wrong, even if you try to hide it, honestly)
It would be a huge relief if you could tell somebody how sad you are - without going into detail, if you don't want to?
eman41297 katehippy
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yes i am oldest among my siblings.... there's alot of things going on right now in my life...some of them bothering me badly... it's just i'm exhausted... i want these things to stop.. i need a break from everything but i just cant.. it's like i am in a vehicle which i cant control... with each passing day i am changing in a bad way.. i want to go along the circumstances without them affecting me.. i am trying hard not to get collapsed... to not give up... i'll keep on trying for myself...
katehippy eman41297
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You're not changing in a bad way Eman, you're only human. We can only deal with a certain amount in life. Too much at the same time is not good for us....
If my health is good but my job is bad that's one thing. If my job, health and family is wrong that's three - that's already too many! I believe we can only cope with two, maximum three at the same time.
You are also trying so hard to keep sane for your siblings, yes? If you want to take responsibility for others it's necessary to take care of yourself.... You need a break, like seriously. How can you be strong if you are tired and losing control?
What are the the other things happening? If you write them down you might find some relief. If it's written it's out. This is a very private place and we can share.
I wish you could take a holiday!
farah94 eman41297
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you will always find these kind of people and even worse than them.
to be honest with you the most important thing to you as you said your family , you seem to have a supportive family and that's a good thing other than that wont define you or your family !
life is about ups and down , winning and losing , sorrow and happiness .. and what is stay in the end is family !
try to be social and take things easy , find a sport to do or a reading or writing club to join ,
dont over think and dont be hard on yourself
be happy <3
with love
Farah Moh
eman41297 farah94
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farah94 eman41297
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let yourself to be happy by knowing what will makes you happy and fight for it !
and try to pray it will help you in your journey
the most important thing is to love yourself cause you deserve to be loved and you deserve to be happy
for me ma happiness where when I work hard to achieve something or earn it and now I am the one who is gathering everything to start my own business cause I know it will make me happy !
farah94 eman41297
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eman41297 farah94
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i think you are right... i'll try and than let you know... keep in touch ...thank you once again..