Is there any point?
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The past month i have been doing well with the odd slip up with self harm but nothing major and have been feeling like i have a chance to beat this but i was alone last christmas and promised myself i wouldn't end up like that again and its happened again this year, my mum made plans without me and my step dad kicked me out of his house about a month ago because he couldn't deal with me being in my room feeling low all the time.
I was alone on christmas day and boxing day just laying in bed upset all day, the one day of the year that i just wanted to forget as i knew what was going to happen, i just hope next year isn't as bad as this because i don't know how much more i can take, im back to square one barely even moving out of bed
Im 20 years old and back to wishing there was an easy way out, i had built myself up to go to the doctors aswell which took weeks but was unable to go and now whats happened with christmas has just destroyed all of my motivation again!
I don't have any friends or family anymore, only people i speak to are people i have met on here who have been amazing but one day ill have to question what exactly it is im fighting for anymore.
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michael_37726 jake12070
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What you are fighting is the same thing we are all fighting and sometimes it feel like a losing battle. I know how hard it can be finding the courage to go to the doctors but I always find that once I have gone there I always feel better afterwards. It's all to easy to lose hope and give up but the problem is when we give up its a downward spiral and we go so far down that it seems impossible to get back up again
jake12070 michael_37726
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I know what you mean, i had tried so hard and built myself up for the doctors but i knew if i ended up being alone on christmas, just being reminded of how little i have anymore on a day thats meant to be with a family i don't have. Im just venting now, my way of dealing with this when i don't have anyone to talk to but im tired of trying at the minute, just want this dreadful year to end!
Thanks for replying.
michael_37726 jake12070
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jake12070 michael_37726
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krollette66 jake12070
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I am sorry your struggling without any sort of support.
You deserve to be happy as much as anyone else.
People here will support you and help you along.
There are organisations offline too who can signpost you to one on one help and encouragement.
Half the battle with depression is asking for help so Well done you !
Jo
deirdre._03652 jake12070
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michael_37726 deirdre._03652
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I'm ok I don't need to go to the docs I was just giving jake some advice and using my passed experiences to help him. My withdrawal symptoms are subsiding now so that good it's just the anxiety that's bad still but I can cope with that its nothing compared to how I have been feeling recently
deirdre._03652 jake12070
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Can I adopt you both? Bless you, I want to give you both great big hugs, please do go to see your GP for help, you should be having an amazing life,, ( sadly, it does not always work out that way ).. keep posting on here for support, and I truly, truly hope that the coming year will give you both a happier and fulfilling life. In my thoughts both, take good care of yourselves... regards, Deirdre xx
michael_37726 deirdre._03652
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Dondons3 jake12070
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you may have lost a few battles but you can still win the war! XXXX
jake12070 Dondons3
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Im not strong i spent the whole day in bed upset wondering what exactly i have done wrong in my life to keep deserving all of this, can't even fight my own thoughts let alone win any war :'( x
eli_bird jake12070
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Dondons3 jake12070
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jake12070 eli_bird
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Just want these thoughts to stop, i knew if i was alone at christmas it would do this and im back to square one
eli_bird jake12070
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yes you have gone back to square 1 but this is only because people around you were selfish its not your fault its theirs
is there somewhere you can make an effort to go for New Year ?
jake12070 eli_bird
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No i don't have anywhere to go for new year, no friends or family except my mum after being kicked out and its the last place i wanted to come but i had no choice
Just me, in my room, trying to deal with my thoughts as always
eli_bird jake12070
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So you are at home with your mum,Do you work or are you a student ?
hmmm yes it is difficult when you have no choices so i am presuming you not working.
Dondons3 eli_bird
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Today is my birthday too x
eli_bird Dondons3
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jake12070 eli_bird
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Its a long story but im on a year off at the minute x
eli_bird jake12070
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what are you planning to do with the year have you any thoughts on it ?
jake12070 eli_bird
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eli_bird jake12070
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its just a tempoary situation with hope you can build towards it and im so glad you chose this forum as people here are so suportive and give good advice and help
jake12070 eli_bird
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I have nothing and no plans, i am glad i found this forum, i wouldn't have got through what happened a few months ago without some people here but im straight back to where i started
eli_bird jake12070
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,its not easy and yes there will be set backs and yes its picking yourself up and starting all over again but with help you become stronger and next year you wont leave yourself vunlerable at Christmas time like you have this year you will be stronger and wont allow it trust me,
But for now we have to start again and make you stronger
jake12070 eli_bird
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eli_bird jake12070
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i will check messages all day so i will reply today
jake12070 eli_bird
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