Is this herpes???

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    Last week, a day after my boyfriend and I made love I felt pain on my vaginal opening, pain like it was stretch so I just ignored it and something happen to us again after two days the pain is still bearable. Then last thursday I got my period when it started I felt pain whenever I pee and it became worst (I was thinking it was UTI or Kidney stone infection) aside from that I still felt pain from my vaginal opening so I check what causing the pain on other area, since my flow still heavy I just only saw two blister which I just ignored. last saturday I checked it again and I saw that it already pop out and it became an ulcer. I already got worried, its just a small ulcer and now its already like that and just got another one on my vulva outer lips. I wanted it to check but the issue is im in a conservative muslim country and bringing this case to the doctor will give them a hint that I engaged in pre marital sex which is illegal in this country aside from that im not sure if I'll be positive of herpes I might be deported so right now I cannot confirm it till I take my vacation next year. If I'll be positive of herpes is there a possibility to find out if I got it from my current boyfriend? We've been together for the last 1 year and as I can still remember during the first time we made love i felt extreme itchiness after a few days then my discharge became a cottage like cheese so I was suspecting that time that I got yeast infection and it was a first time that it happens to me. I just took some probiotics and change my feminine wash and I think it took more than a month before my discharge became normal again. I never experienced all of this during my past relationship, nothing weird at all it just happen after I met my current boyfriend so is there a big probability that I got it from him? Your insight will be helpful. thank you

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    looks like it yes, you are unable to get it swabbed?

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      No, I can't coz I'm quite concern about being deported

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    that looks quite painful you need to be on medication hun, I'm sure it's against the law for a doctor to tell anyone

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      yes its painful and I don't even know if its healing there's no changes everyday. although I can pee much better now compare to last week but it's painful on the one which is under the vaginal opening like I can feel it...I stop wearing undies at night but the whole day I have too coz I am at work but I can sit now unlike last weekend that I'm just in bed..Im afraid coz anyone who will get positive for any std hospital or doctor is obliged to report it to the government else they will lose their license.

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      thank you, how long does do u think it will last if its really herpes?

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      I think everyone is different I got it really really bad because I went through a trauma a while ago so my body didn't cope well with it! but if your healthy it might only take a week or two! let me know how your getting on x

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      Hi there's new update this morning when I check it if its healing i saw another 3 bumps and 2 very small bump in the same bumps in vulva outer lips I thought that one is already healing coz I can touch it already but now I saw another 2 very small bumps. its crazy and im getting so really worried and theres another 1 on the other side of the lips, was it really like this? that after one week of having the ulcer im getting more newer bumps?

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      Yeah that happened to me gets worse before it gets better you need to be on valtrex do you know anyone that can get you some?

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      I'll have it check with a doctor next week it's getting worse and scary I don't care anymore what will happen next but I think its better it to be check, btw have you also experience a pus like discharge the odor is not that bad its just smell like an iron? i actually don't know if its a discharge or its just coming out from the wound...its a lot actually its running to my legs whenever i don't wear panty...

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    btw, for those tested positive for HSV2 what your discharge look like? I'm a lil bit worried about my discharge coz it's a lot and so watery with a lil light yellow colour seems like a pus and it smells like iron. same as the smell of blood, not sure if its just because I just had my period..

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