Just dreading it...

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Can anyone help? I start a job on Tuesday in a school with children which i can't have, i am dreading it every bug takes a week to shift. How do i keep well? What do i eat or would you bother. Working 11.45 - 3.15 daily Monday to Friday. Feel sick about it. Don't know if I have ibs either or coeliac disease has been queried too. Please help, really very scared!

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    Hey Sam, I can understand how difficult it must be for you to be around kids, when you know you can't have.

    And I think all these things, come together worsen your disappointments and anxiety and so your gut condition.

    I highly recommend you to talk to your therapist regarding this and take help of some medications for time being as that will help you to get adjust in new environment.

    Have patience, This drugs take time to show it's effects, may be 2-3 months, But after that you will see change in your condition, You will easily cop up with your situations and once you get used to with your job you can try to reduce the drugs.

    Take it as a blessings that atleast you got the chance of taking care of those which you don't have, If you think, oh, Why can't I have this , Then you always feel disappointed. So change the way you think and you see, you will start enjoying your job.

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