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Blackhole
Blackhole

I am leaving this site, I didn't post for a long time, as some people were rude to me. I came on again to give it another try, and to honest I feel that I'm not apart of it. Just want to ask you to think of new people on here as it takes so much for anyone to open up. It's a big step and they are needing your help. I know that a lot of you are friends but there are others who need you too. I'm not having a go, just want to see others are getting the help they need. I know that I have to do this now on my own, which will be hard.

I thank you for your comments and wish you all the best.

Please don't take this wrong, I don't mean to be nasty, I wish you all the best. Take care

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  • lorraine52317
    lorraine52317 Blackhole

    Posted

    Hi

    I really hope you don't leave. I'm fairly new and this site has been a lifeline to me. We are all suffering and all need each other which includes needing you too.

    Please re think and don't leave us. Xx

    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317 Blackhole

      Posted

      Hi this is my first time of depression it's now been four months. Still spending too much time in bed rather than living life! How are you doing honestly? I hope you will stay in touch

      I really do xx

    • Blackhole
      Blackhole lorraine52317

      Posted

      It's been since November for me, I have just upped my dosage as not doing great. I'm struggling with depression and anxiety which I'm finding that the hardest. It's stopping me doing things then I get angry with myself. Then I hate me, I am so thankful when I get in bed, but I just have to keep going as my patents rely on me. It's so hard as they don't know, my mum is disabled now and don't know how much longer, it's is hard as can't tell them as mum would blame herself. And I can't have that.
    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317 Blackhole

      Posted

      Bless that is a lot on your plate. I have recently upped my dose and it messes you up all over again. We will get there and if you stay on this site we can update each other xxx

      Stay strong

      God bless

      Lorraine x

    • susan45954
      susan45954 lorraine52317

      Posted

      Lorraine, I can relate to that. I am currently on 20 mg of Citalopram and I do feel better.
  • nick34171
    nick34171 Blackhole

    Posted

    Oh! I think i have seen some of your posts, im sorry! You had a different name at first right? Hope you found some others to  talk about your mother illness and if i'm getting it wrong again i apologise, but do wish you the very best, hang in there you are a great person for taking care of your parents. Nick.
  • fee25
    fee25 Blackhole

    Posted

    Blackhole, you are a useful and insightful person on this site. It would be very sad to see you go. 

    I saw a post on the anxiety disorder page spouting nothing but homophobic comments. This is a place of support, no judgment, but you are right, some may be forgetting that. 

    I hope you stay. You are always welcome here.

    • Blackhole
      Blackhole fee25

      Posted

      I hope I didn't upset anyone, not my intention to do that. Just wanted a reminder that we all need help. Everyone on here needs support, they made a big step and asking for help. If anyone got upset I'm sorry!
    • fee25
      fee25 Blackhole

      Posted

      Oh no, I'm agreeing with what you are saying in that I believe some people on here can forget that we are a community of love and support as I saw a post from a man abusing and judging a group of people, which I thought was awful!

      I totally understand and agree with your post. Don't get me wrong I do love this forum and the majority of people on here as they have definitely given me brilliant advice and support but, I totally see where you are coming from and agree with you. xx 

    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317 fee25

      Posted

      Nicely put fee.

      There will always be the odd one on any site. I have had amazing support from this site and I hope I can give back that love and compassion to others xx

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