looking for information about GH type 2
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So long story short... the guy I was dating for 2 and a half months had his ex show up at his house saying he gave her herpes.. ( she was in a full break out that the docs looked at and said was herpes, not sure if it was tested or not) and so he went and got a blood test done last week and this week they called him saying that he tested postive for type 2. I also went and got tested and mine came back negitive. We havent had sex in almost a month and a half. We live about an hour away from each other and i work alot. How is this even possible that he came back positive and i came back negitive. (my doc even did a swab but i dont have any sores so not sure how that one works and i also had the blood test done.)
since he got the news, he has totally broken off everything with me saying well... the only person i have been with is you in the last couple months.... but he told me that him and his ex broke up about a week after him and i met. Im so confused. I have called many clinics trying to get more information on this subject and most tell me that they normally do swabs if signs are shown and then a blood test to confirm it. Its really not helping me out. The now ex boyfriend said that until he figures out what is going on that everything is off.. Why am i seem to be being punished for something i do not have??? HELP!!!!!!!
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smokeblunts420 nyxie
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Kar2286 nyxie
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My boyfriend and I were dating for six month and having unprotected sex before I contracted it from him. If he isn't shedding when you are having sex then you wouldn't catch it. You should feel extremely fortunate and relieved that you don't have it. Though your test might be wrong. It takes time to show up in the blood. I still test negative in the blood for IgG and IgM though cultures confirmed I have it. I would be cautious for the next few months if you choose to have a sexual encounter and get tested again in a few months. You aren't being punished he's doing you a favor. This disease has been excruciating for me. It shouldn't be taken lightly. You haven't been dating long enough to be this upset. It's a good thing. Walk away from it and I. The future require std testing before having sex with anyone. I wish I had.
nyxie
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I just upset that it seems to be that he is blaming me. Every time we talk about it all he says is " i havent been with any one but you since april 30 th of this year.." I tried to explain to him that it takes a while for the antibodies to show up in the blood test and that it has to be one of his exs. He just keeps telling me the same thing over and over and that NOW HE HAS TO LIVE WITH IT!!! Hello!!! so would the ex that you got it from and so does the person that you gave it to. It seems to be like he is just concerned about him then the partners he has had. I am tryin to help him understand this better by just being there for him even if it is just as a friend but just a couple days before he found out he had it he was talking about getting married to me down the road and now he put everything on HOLD as he put it... Said he would keep me informed on whats going on but Honestly.... I dont think im gonna cross that bridge and end up with something that he knows he has now. I wished him the best and that I hope he finds every thing that he is looking for in life. I just dont understand why he keeps blaming me for giving him something. I havent been with anyone besides him in 2 years and it doesnt matter if i am with some one or not. I go and get tested every 3 to 6 months because i know some symptoms dont show up for about that time period... I just dont ask for the normal STD testing... I make sure they test for everything... Blood work and cultures are all done.
jenny37667 nyxie
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