Male depression
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Boyfriend has boughts of depression, cries and talks of suicide. I listen and support him and one day asked if he wants to see his GP and get meds, he refuses, he won't / can't take meds. He has a very delicate stomach. I don't know what to do for him other than listen. But his depression makes me depressed.
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jessica05 Survyvn
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please try to be health and dont hurt yourself try you and him to do activities togather let him talk to therapy i heard CBT work so good try it
i wish the best for both of you
my boyfriend has depression and i feel your pain
Guy26 Survyvn
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The GP might be able to give a medication for the depression and something to stop it upsetting the stomach at the same time. Also the stomach problems could even be caused by the depression as depression does cause REAL physical symptoms for many people.
His health is his responsibility but if he is talking of sucide then he clearly isn't thinking clearly. However that doesn't mean you have to take responsibility completely, put up with poor behaviour or just live with it if he refuses to get help. You must protect your own health as well.
I wonder if someone like MIND would be able to give you some advice and support. http://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/helplines/
Another option might be to go and speak to his GP yourself? And maybe even see your own GP to get some counselling support for yourself as a carer.
Does your boyfriend work? How is he coping day to day?
Survyvn Guy26
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charles67285 Survyvn
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jackie15396 Survyvn
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Take care of yourself Jackie.
ecnaL Survyvn
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chain_smoker Survyvn
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So what I suppose I'm saying is that the question isn't what can you do for him, it's how can you get him to do it for himself. They are very different.
I don't have the answer but I can tell you with my wife it was paitence and timing. I waited till things were virtually out of control and then suggest the GP again, a bit more firmly.
Today she came home from counselling saying she wished she'd started years ago. 3yrs ago she swore she'd never see a doctor or counsellor. So there is hope!!
jackie15396 Survyvn
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Jackie