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Matron leaving!😞

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phyl_40063
phyl_40063

Hi all,

So devastated, Matron is leaving the forum and website; will miss her so much, a wonderful lady who is so supportive to all.

Someone/people have been nasty on one of the other forums. This is not the first time, I hope the modulators manage to track the troll/'s down and sort this out once and for all.

Hoping Matron will change her mind she is such a great source of reliable information and always on hand to help the many worried ladies!

Please change your mind Matron,

Phyl x😕😕😕

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  • elaine57319
    elaine57319 phyl_40063

    Posted

    That's terrible! I have found Matrons support invaluable and cannot believe people would be nasty to her. Please stay Matron! XXX
    • phyl_40063
      phyl_40063 elaine57319

      Posted

      The fact that Matron has not only been through repair ops herself but she also worked within urogynocology making her advice that much more invaluable!

      Phyl x

  • Mari88
    Mari88 phyl_40063

    Posted

    I am so sorry to hear this . She has been so generous with her time and knowledge and I have valued all of her input over the past few weeks of my recovery. 

    How dreadful that somebody would want to be unpleasant to such a lovely person sad 

  • sarah63272
    sarah63272 phyl_40063

    Posted

    I agree Matron is brilliant. She always gives excellent insight and information and she has been so patient with me. I will miss her can't believe anyone could say anything unpleasant about her.
    • phyl_40063
      phyl_40063 sarah63272

      Posted

      Your right Sarah, it is unbelievable that anyone could be unpleasant! I do hope Matron reconsider's her decision to leave and not allow this negativity of trolls to dictate. I would imagine it would be very upsetting to sat the least but we can't allow people like that to win!

      Phyl x

  • Melons08746
    Melons08746 phyl_40063

    Posted

    That's awful, Matron has been great her advice has been invaluable I hope she reconsiders and stays
    • phyl_40063
      phyl_40063 Melons08746

      Posted

      Absolutely, while we can all share our experiences, and can draw on each other for support we still need reassurance from Matron!

      Phyl x

  • Laura3333
    Laura3333 phyl_40063

    Posted

    Noo! I really hope not,she is so helpful and honest in her replies.

    She isn't just a forum member she has so much knowledge.

    I read something a few weeks ago about someone complaining. Why would you complain about someone who tries to help, and gives so much of her time and experience.

    What a shame.

    • phyl_40063
      phyl_40063 Laura3333

      Posted

      We will all miss her Laura, I know even though I am on the mend and over 3 and a half months post op, I still feel that I need advice now and again and I would not have got this far without Matrons support and help.

      Phyl x

  • carolyn011254
    carolyn011254 phyl_40063

    Posted

    That's apPalling. As all have said matron has helped each and everyone of us on this forum. So sad that there are so many cretins out there.hope this hasn't affected matron too much. Many future readers will miss the support we have all had.
    • phyl_40063
      phyl_40063 carolyn011254

      Posted

      This is if Carolyn, their arespective new patients all the time in need if Matron. I had my 1st repair along with hysterectomy over 3 years ago, and unfortunately I prolapsed almost immediately, not really sure why, many various reasons, but I may have faired better if I had know about this forum and could have benefited from Matron's advice as I have done this time.

      Phyl x

  • dorothy03601
    dorothy03601 phyl_40063

    Posted

    Please change your mind Matron.  We all love you and depend on your knowledge and supremely caring support.  Why are some people so nasty??  Don't let them win.  Our world has changed, where it is more common for the minority opinions out weigh the majority.  The great majority of us love you, and depend on you.  Whatever your choice,  I will remember the help you have given me, and I thank God for getting to know you, per this forum.  Bless you, dear lady!  And don't hesitate to come back to us.

    Most Sincerely,  Dorothy

  • helen64949
    helen64949 phyl_40063

    Posted

    I cannot understand how anyone could 'troll' matron, shame on them.  The mods should sort this out ASAP.  Matron, please don't go.
    • phyl_40063
      phyl_40063 helen64949

      Posted

      Online trolls should be exposed, and made to feel shame for the things they say!
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