My boyfriend is having trouble...

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and we love eachother very much, but since we first started having sex he's been having erectile issues from it not happening for a while to it going soft my way, now we are both young healthy and have decent sex drives so this is driving us insane, the doctors have said there's nothing wrong and this has never happened to him with any other girl though he assures me till he is blue in the face that he loves me and finds me attractive. We really are at a dead end with this and so here I am to see if anyone else has an answer for us. Any help would be much apreciated!

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  • Posted

    It's likely stress. He's probably stressed out that he's failing, which is causing the problem to persist.

  • Posted

    ED can be very frustrating for both parties. I agree with Grimsby about stress. One other idea: Has he tried abstaining from masturbating?
    • Posted

      Hi yes he doesn't masturbate anymore as he thought that could be the problem, I just don't know how to help him sad

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