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Okay I've been dating the same guy for a year now. He has always dropped hints about how's he depressed but I didn't really think much of it since he has always seemed so happy and what not. When we first started hanging out one night he randomly broke doe and started telling me about his depression. I didn't know what to say or do since it all came out of nowhere and he had only hung out a few times. 8 months or so have gone by and he's never really said anything about it again. Things were going good he asked me to move in with him. ( which I didn't but just because I need to say money) he found a place with his friends and told me I could keep things there since I stay there every night.
I got mad at him and we didn't talk for a couple days and then hung out and talked about how we need to communicate better. He told me it's hard for him since he's depressed. So I started asking his questions about it and we talk some about it but he asked if we could talk about the next day since it was 3 in the morning. The next day I wake up to him Chang smoking and listening to his iPod. He then gives me a kiss and leave. I call him later and he acted completely normal. Then he just randomly text me telling me how he needs to be alone and how he has to be happy with himself. How he loves me like crazy but it's now fair to me and how he's done hurting me and leading me on. Then he said he needs to take care of himself and he can't give me hat I deserve.
What what the heck does all of this mean it all so random. Are we done for good? Is this just an excuse? Is he ever gonna come back? He has just completely shut me out won't respond or answer my calls. What do I do?
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