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My boyfriend broke with me. First he said , he had many issues and wanted to be alone, because he was not prepared to be in any kind of relationship. Before all of this, i really try to help him. He moved from his parents house and did not wanted to tell me where he was. Two weeks before breaking with me he told me he missed me. On christmas he wrote me on whats app , that he wanted to break up, because he did not wanted me to suffer his conditions. But then told me, it was because of me, being to pushy, overthinking things, being inpulsive and agressive. He told me to be friends. I sonetimes was a little pushy, but it was because he hide from me things, he blocked me from facebook, he didnt want me to know where he was, or where he spended the night. I wrote him that he was the first man in my life telling i was agressive because i always treated him good, caring and being there. I told him i didnt accept him to call me like that. After that, he read the message but did not reply. He blocked me from all social media, except from whats app. I really dont know what to do or think
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Eliaimee1970 daisy100
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hi daisy how are you? you sound like me he kind act he is with someone else. i hope not but why block you, and making sure you dont know what je is doing. you know is his loss. FOCUS on you .
my husband kind of got distant from me and i couldnt understand but actually he was talking to someone else. he denied and i knew even though i saw it in the early. i was going thru a ugly custody battle and he felt in some type a way.
I hope everything work out and he gets help for his depression.
wayne1962 daisy100
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Hi Daisy - of course you know what to think and do. Look at all he has done. Can the message be any clearer? He has blocked you, blamed you, shamed you. Why do you want that in your life? Take this opportunity to cut him out of your life. Block HIM on these apps and platforms, take the time to grieve over the demise of your relationship, and start building a new life for you. YOU. The first love can be meaningful and cherished, but not when this is how you are treated. Flick him out of your life, don't wallow in idealised expectations of what might have been - it will never happen with him, he is treating you as a door mat. We teach others how to treat us, and when you allow someone to belittle you and get away with it, that is the script they will use. He can't give you what he doesn't have.
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