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My girlfriend has a father issue, please keep in mind that she's a victim. Her father kept cheating on her mother, hit her and I can tell that my GF is always looking for a father figure in her relationship. She's looking for rich and powerful men, to be exact. Man who can give her material wise and stamp a bright future on her forehead. I believe she's never realized it, but everyone around her can see her needs, her craving for that. She even had an affair with her principal when she was in senior high. Now we're in the relationship for 2 years and, yeah, she's getting much better since she's with me (her brother told me). Now she's 24 and I'm 29.
The problem is, it seems that I can never be the figure she always wanted. I worked so hard to be the best for her, I did everything I could to give her what she needs, to make her happy. And now we're in LDR, she takes her master study abroad and unfortunately, she met this 55 y/o guy who keeps hitting on her, he appeared like a prince charming on the white horse, and she came honest to me that they had sex already and they started to grow a feeling toward each other.
I feel powerless, humiliated, small and no use to live. It worst than someone spits on your face.
Please help me I'm having depression right now. I'll do anything to win her back and eventually fix her. I know her so well and she did that because of her issues. We were very happy and very loyal. Please help me, I love her so much.
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