My husband doesn't understand peri menopause
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I'm going through the peri menopause and feel like I hate my husband. I seem to be dwelling on his past behaviour which isn't nice for him either. Does anyone else have these experiences
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ImagineOneDay jackie26383
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jackie26383 ImagineOneDay
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Thanks - nice to think I'm not as evil as I thought!
anetta94863 jackie26383
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sheryl_70697 jackie26383
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Yes I can absolutely understand I am going through the same exact thing and god sent me the most patient man !!!! But I still fear (because of events of severe childhood abuse) which contributes to my low self esteem which I'm getting christfian counseling for that he recommended, plus multiple surgeries because of the abuse I suffered 1. Major back surgery it took (9 hours) to repair a total right hip
replacement and polyps removed all Surgeries happened in 9 months all in the same year and I need 2 more surgeries That I can't have because I've been under to much anesthesia in a short period of time it's not safe and the menopause symptoms are severe 1. Sever night sweats 2. Ensomnia. 3. Severe migraines 4. Bloating 5. Flu like symptoms 6 ever more severe back pain 6. Don't want to leave the house ect......
since I had the Polyps removed and no sexual desire @ all there are times I can't even stand for him to touch me or look at me
and I even though he says he understands I can tell it bothers him I hope this helps I will be praying for you if that's ok???
jackie26383 sheryl_70697
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ImagineOneDay jackie26383
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Cass63 ImagineOneDay
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I once had someone tell me, anything that you have not dealt with in your past will surface during menopause. Don't know why that is, but I think she knew what she was taking about and was speaking from experience.
ImagineOneDay Cass63
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How strange the way our body &mind works. I have had emotional abuse from my both parents. I have tried to deal with the feeling all my life. But now it us worse. Perhaps I wasn't successful dealing with them. I had many counselling session up until recently. But stopped since I wasn't making abd progress and was stuck... I do hope that these come to end with menapause and we can have a peace in rest of our life; however much left...
lena53512 jackie26383
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Now, in peri, some situations come to me sooooo vivid. I wake up at night, and I really see and experince situations that happenned 40 years ago. Same during the day - a place, person, anything, and my memories are back. So painful. Why it is so? What does it mean?