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My Perimenapause symptoms

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gilly_64426
gilly_64426

Hi ladies

Here is my list of symptoms

-cannot sleep

-gualbladder

-feeling dizzy

-brain fog

-overwhelming feeling of tiredness

-awful taste in my mouth

-anxiety especially when arrested

-heart racing due to anxiety

-low sex drive

-pain in my lower back

-electric shock feeling in fingers

-lazy leg

-blurred vision sometimes

-left breast pain

-left shoulder pain

-hair loss(thank goodness I'm mixed so I can change my hair styles up )😉

-aching points on my legs and arms and if touched my skins bruises

--feeling like something is sitting over my left breast (a heaviness)

- doom and always thing the worst thing to happen to me( can't watch movies with blood scenes or hear about someone passed away, or pass churches

-can't find time to exercise bit want to

-don't want to go out and socialize

- no longer a nice person, I can't tolerate others and my temper is short

-in also abrupt with my kids and husband and annoyed when they ask me to do thing

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I think that's it for now, feel free to add to my list

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  • lori93950
    lori93950 gilly_64426

    Edited

    Ditto to most of that ! It’s the fatigue dizziness that gets me ..... can’t make any plans I’m resigned to the bedroom all day today. When I do something normal like go out for an evening or clean the house I suffer the whole next day and am exhausted . It’s a nightmare !! The worst thing I’ve been through and I’ve been run over by a car ! At least I knew I was going to recover . 
    • gilly_64426
      gilly_64426 lori93950

      Posted

      Lori,

      I know about cleaning the house, I get a the energy to clean then, I pay for next day😣the struggle is real girl???feeling the love

    • lori93950
      lori93950 gilly_64426

      Posted

      Thanks Gilly ! It’s a complete horror story .. ready for bed at 6pm and excited to go to bed . I’m going to look into a bloody menopause clinic ... somewhere you can go where there drs and they can actually fix you ! My hormone dr said my estrogen cream  may be too high but it’s a whole friggin back and forth ... cant stand it ! 

    • gilly_64426
      gilly_64426 lori93950

      Edited

      I swear men get help if they have a headache but women can't get any help, we to fight for peri menapause because I can't stand this thing, it's a monster 😣

  • pam90720
    pam90720 gilly_64426

    Posted

    lol! I think I just wrote that!! Same here friend with all you listed and I'm in menopause !!!  Hugs!!!!!🙏🙏💕💕

    • gilly_64426
      gilly_64426 pam90720

      Posted

      Thanks Pam,

      My struggle lately is my breast pain and left arm, I cut out coffee and started taking evening Prim rose and trying to prayer more and keep calm thru , thx for the ❤ this group is great

  • maureen12052
    maureen12052 gilly_64426

    Posted

    I’m so sorry gilly😢. I had almost everyone of your symptoms and it sucks!! I’m 50 and still going through some of them! The anxiety is the worst! I still can’t deal with hearing about someone dying from cancer or some horrible death. I feel you pain on that! I googled every symptom I had and about scared myself to death.  I’ll pray for you because I know first hand how you feel.😲

    • gilly_64426
      gilly_64426 maureen12052

      Posted

      Maureen

      How could this happen to us now?

      I have 4 kids and giving birth was not like this, I would get pregnant again just so avoid this pain

    • 2chr2015
      2chr2015 maureen12052

      Posted

      Hi maureen.  I’m right there with you on the anxiety.  It’s like I avoid talking to my mom or I stop her when I know it’s coming bc it’s always about someone sick or dying.  Not that I don’t care, but I just can’t handle it mentally anymore.  And unfortunately I stopped going to my weekly bible study because of it.  I am 46.
  • Nancy2121
    Nancy2121 gilly_64426

    Posted

    Couldn't have said it ANY better! It's AWFUL!

    Said if these are our golden years, screw it! I'd rather give birth every day. And the 1 time that happened, it took 27 hours! This is by far the most horrible experience ever! No matter how healthy I try to be, I feel like crap almost every day. I WILL say that the hot flashes aren't as bad today. Thank the Lord! Just trying to stay positive, and thanking God for the husband and family support that I have. I KNOW this could be worse, and many of you suffer worse than I am right now! Hugs...and happy thoughts!?

    • lori93950
      lori93950 Nancy2121

      Posted

      I got run over 11 years ago and it’s on par with that ! At least I knew each day I’d have improvement . It’s the worst .... I hate it and NEVER knew shamedly it could be so bad . It’s a crime against us . My life is just cleaning up trying to a bit of exercise and sleep sleep sleep
  • Guest
    Guest gilly_64426

    Posted

    How many times have you been arrested? Lol!!!

    I have all these symptoms and even more dreadful ones.

    XO

    • gilly_64426
      gilly_64426 Guest

      Posted

      None, spell check this time and not peri brain🤗🤗🤗,

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