my relatives don't like me

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People whom I live with never care, they show a joy when something bad happens to me

I never have support from them, they are always there to blame me for everything, they are keeping to say that i am a loser

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    If you're old enough leave home. Find your happiness. If you aren't old enough, study hard, think about your future, what will make you happy, safe, keep you in a good position to look after yourself, then never look back. You are not a loser. Be strong. Believe in yourself. Nick.
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      Thank you , that is difficult because of the financial situation, i cant see future well and kind of  afraid of it.

      Sometimes I feel ok, but often in despair. I dont trust anybody and afraid of being open

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    one day family may be everything to you so try to figure out the Dynamicslook out for yourself and make sure you leave that bridge intact so you could come back to your family who may be everything to you one day assuming that they aren't bad people
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    I have a lot of crummy relatives, too.  I have nothing to do with them although I did try for many years and they were still crummy people.  Now, I have nothing to do with them and am much happier for it.  Only you can change how you react (or not) to their stupid remarks.  It does take lots of practice but you can get there.  Have you tried therapy?  
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    Hi ferrum you need the support of a therapist and possibly medication if you're not already on it. You are not a loser and you're not to blame. You are a person struggling and you deserve support from the right people.
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