Need advise pls pls :/
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im 24 male got genital herpes for 7 months right now I do not know where or who I got it from or maybe from my gf she says she once got a oral herpes before 10 yrs ago and not got it anymore and I cant say she gave it to me because based on my research a lot of research herpes is hard to know or I mean hard to pinpoint a person who gave it to us been depressed to these im not the same as before I like travelling, goin' to beach, exposing to sun, smoking cigars and drinking as much as I want not get bothered and now it changed so much and its f*kng bullsh** I got outbreaks every now and then I found out my triggers and its so sad that my triggers are what I mention above... got 11 OB for 7 months.. HELP PLS NEED ADVISE 😕 And I think my dream is ruined too I want to become a police but I have this herpes I do not know if I still get what I really wanted to 😕 In order to be a police you have to engage to a training for a year and the training is 100% sure is in the outdoor exposing from the sun AND exposing from the sun is the 1 triggers for us having herpes... LIFE IS SOMETIMES UNFAIR 😕 sad
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ian58926
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fvcking life............... I was so blessed because of having a her I said to myself I am blessed with her I got all I want and need in life(before the 1st OB) but sad to say I got it 😕 I was so thankful when we are starting to live together but sad it happened...
char51150 ian58926
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I'm sorry to hear,maybe when you sign up they can make an excuse for your training and it could be done indoors or late at evening,also try asking your doctor for daily suppressive
ian58926 char51150
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I think the doctor will approve me to take the training camp because doctors really dont know what herpes is, only person with herpes knows what is herpes really it is.
Im trying to study more about my body until I understand it full and apply for the training and pray..If its for me, it will really come.
thanks for the comment
alex35210 ian58926
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herpes sucks but it is not going to stop you doing these things and follow your goals. go to your doctor and talk about suppressive treatment. you can take these daily and it will stop outbreaks. you can still join the police as it is not a medical condition that would stop you from doing your job. just try to look after yourself. also in general the longer you have herpes the less outbreaks you have. it will get better!!!
ian58926 alex35210
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Really? I hope that is true the longer I have it the less outbreaks I get. Thank you so much for this messages I feel better when I read this now thanks..
I just thought of something if your on suppressive, taking on a daily basis if you are expose on your triggering part I mean if you are expose so much with sunlight or taking alcohol so much? do you still got OB even your on a daily treatment?
alex35210 ian58926
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thats what i read initially and it has been true for me. my first year was bad i had three in a row so i had medication everyday for a year. i now get maybe 1 OB a year and i have had it for 4 years. the suppressive works to prevent the virus from coming out. so should help even if you are doing the things that usually cause an OB. but you still need to look after yourself and it does not prevent it from transfering to other people. just learn more about it. go to your doctor and they can give you all the information, but i think it would be a good option for you to take these daily when you travel so that you can enjoy yourself!
alex35210
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i dont take daily treatment anymore and get 1 a year. i had no outbreaks taking daily medication
ian58926 alex35210
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thats so relieving to hear. For how many years youve been on daily intake?
ian58926 alex35210
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So relieving.. Thank you so much I think I will gonna pursue my dreamsssss.... Yas!! thank you thank you..
alex35210 ian58926
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i took the daily medication for one year. your welcome! i know at first its upsetting but it really isnt the end of the world! good luck with your dreams and enjoy traveling!!
ian58926 alex35210
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thank you so much.. Words really can change a persons perspective in life. thank you for sharing your experiences.. God bless. 😄 I feel like Im back to the old me because of your message thank you.