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I've been dating a girl for 3 and half years. We have a long distance relationship, where we usually see each other 2-3 times a month. (if we our schedules work). When I first met her, she told me that she suffers from depression and told me that if I wanted to leave that she'll understand. I told her that I would stick with her and help her through it because she really means a lot to me. Few years ago we had an engagement and had our wedding date set and everything ready to go. Early last year (2016), just randomly one day, out of the blue, she texted me saying that she cannot do this anymore. At first, I thought she had a rough day at work because her work was stressful and she was also going to school full time. So I let her have a few days to herself, week or so had passed where she did not contact me and thats when I got concerned. I got in touch with her family, where they also had noticed a change in her and did not understand what was happening with her. (Her family does know about her depression). She used to be on medication before I met her and then got off of them because she felt that she did not need them anymore. I have given her some space and then went drove down a few times to surprise her with flowers and let her know that I still love her. However, she was not excited to see me in return. She has not given me any explanation as to why she ended it, she does not really talk that much to her family as well and she has not gotten into contact with me at all. She has completly shut me out of her life. It is very difficult to wrap my head around this all because her family told me that they have never seen her so happy and that she would constantly talk about me all the time. She would also let me know everyday that we spoke as to how much I meant to her and all. It is very frustrating and hard to not be able to get through to her and let her know that I am still there for her and love her. Not sure as to what more I can do.
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