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my sex life is a travesty - i've never had this much trouble with sex before. please tell me someone is in the same boat. key facts:
- i got my 1st nexplanon implant 6 months ago.
- i used to have a regular partner who i had unprotected sex with all the time, using the withdrawal method. this has stopped with my new partner and implant - we have unprotected sex and he finishes inside me.
- i don't have periods anymore, my discharge became thicker even before meeting this new guy.
- i've had UTIs and BV before him.
the first time we had sex, clumps of blood yeeted out of me, which i think was build up from the four periods i didn't have after i got my implant. that made me so scared it would ruin future sex but it didn't happen again.
we're REALLY rough during sex - the third time, i got a uti that lasted 3 weeks, had to self-medicate because the NHS (not capping) refused to give me antibiotics and told me to go home after an 8-hour wait. relied on d-mannose to get me through which idek if it worked.
then, 3 weeks after that, i got a yeast infection. it lasted 3 days but for a week after, my urethra just felt weird. tingly and throbbing especially when i need to pee, with no pain. never had anything like that after my old UTIs two years ago.
and now, three days after we had sex, i have BV. i have never EVER had this many issues from sex!!!!! i used to have multiple partners and even then nothing, it was all gucci. but my lower half just refuses to cooperate with him! and i now think i might have a permanent urethral issue, partly thanks to my untreated uti from the NHS, and i'm just so tired of it. i'm just looking to see if this triple whammy of vaginitis/UTIs has happened to someone else before. i really wanna please both of us, but ngl, my own body is scaring me off sex. please be kind in the replies. thank u ❤️
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