no one on today
Posted , 9 users are following.
i need to talk to some one
1 like, 46 replies
Posted , 9 users are following.
i need to talk to some one
1 like, 46 replies
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kathryn39974 paul67642
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kathryn39974 paul67642
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At the moment everything is still raw for you so just take things slowly one day at a time. I started by keeping a memory box. Keeping a special card or show ticket. Visiting places we used to go to together. Of course family were a help. You can do it Paul. Your girlfriend would be proud of you.
paul67642 kathryn39974
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audrey96558 paul67642
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I know you don't feel like it right now but you really are so blessed to have a child.
How old is your son? What is he like?
I'm so sorry you lost your girlfriend in such a traumatic way.
You really are in the midst of a terrible grief, the darkness is hard to see through.
Try and remember your girlfriend's beauty, her wisdom, her humour, all those little things that made her who she was. Try and use these as tiny glimmers of light to help guide you in this bleakness.
Talking about her might be helpful, writing down all the wonderful things that she did, that you both did together, all the beautiful times you shared.
You need to really focus on all the love you two have, it's really an unbreakable bond, even though she is no longer here you will still feel all you felt when she was.
You can still talk to her, still recognise little moments that you know would have triggered a little inside joke between the two of you, visit places you both enjoyed and try and feel her presence with you.
Once you are touched by a love so deep it never leaves you, and that is so overwhelmingly painful right now, but hopefully, one day, you can look back and smile when you think of her.
Though you'll always miss her, you'll also always know you have given and received pure and unconditional love. That love will always be with you.
I hope one day that will bring you comfort.
Xxx
paul67642 audrey96558
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patricia44773 paul67642
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Thinking of you and feeling for you,
Patxxx
paul67642 patricia44773
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patricia44773 paul67642
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Stay strong for her.
Patxxx
paul67642 patricia44773
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fee25 paul67642
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You've suffered a terrible loss, you still manage to help others whenever you can, which is inspirational. You are a great person and it's dreadful that you lost somebody so precious.
Keep going, you're doing great!
paul67642 fee25
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elizabeth20203 paul67642
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Sending hugs.
Elizabeth.
paul67642 elizabeth20203
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hypercat paul67642
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paul67642 hypercat
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elizabeth20203 paul67642
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Sending hugs.
Elizabeth.
paul67642 hypercat
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paul67642 elizabeth20203
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paul xxx
patricia44773 paul67642
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If you can just hold on, get through this period of grief, things will change. There are many stages in the grieving process, what you are going through is the worst. Stay strong a little longer my friend.
Pat xxxx
paul67642 patricia44773
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its just me i really miss my christine so very much
hypercat paul67642
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hypercat paul67642
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audrey96558 paul67642
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Thinking of you and your son xxx