No way to live
Posted , 12 users are following.
I dont understand how a person can feel like they are shutting down both mentally and physically EVERYDAY yet the doctors say your fine. I know i should be thankful that they are telling me that and i feel so ashamed at myself because there are people and children dying everyday but i feel like I can whine here to you ladies and you dont judge. It breaks my heart when I read your messages and your questions and i have all of the same symptoms and more and i tell you guys to hang in there and not to lose hope yet I cant follow my own advice. Thats it- just needed to vent and cry.
6 likes, 31 replies
christine-Perim susan39015
Posted
wine helps
AJacynM christine-Perim
Posted
... and gin.
Guest AJacynM
Posted
I used to call that momma's little helper. No more kids, so maybe Meno's Little Helper? That's it, I'm popping the kahlua bottle!
Love you gals!
pam90720 Guest
Posted
yessssss!!!!! 😃
pam90720 Guest
Posted
lol!!! i feel like crap anyway, might as well have fun while going through this!! i wake up already feeling like i have a hangover, do i might as well start drinking again!!!
hee hee 😉
pam90720
Posted
*so
Guest pam90720
Posted
Yes! Waking up with a hangover feeling is a good way to describe it!!
AJacynM Guest
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suzanne and pam... a world without gin (and chocolate) right now would make it all sooooooooooooooo much worse!! 😃
Go for it girls...
katyD211 susan39015
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Susan...hugs!!! I feel that same sense shame sometimes. It is hard to take your advice, isn't it?? Guess thats why we have each other here on this forum.
😘
sunaina1983 susan39015
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Mam ur right Dr donot have any Solution to this. i went to Gp then gyn then Nuro all say ur fine ur tests ok ( Thanks to God ) i ask them y then i donot feel good..y i have soo many symtoms..they DONOT HAVE ANSWER to this 😭😭
My Gyn refuse that its peri..she told wait for 4 or 5 years .
Its difficult time of life when no one understand u .
me too everyday remind me its Harmones..hang is there..its phase of life..will pass
tk
susan39015
Posted
I want to thank all of you ladies so much. I did have mono when i was in high school. Im so desperate im about to spend 300 on a juicer and try the celery juice thing that everyone is doing. It has been so bad lately that i did end up starting anxiety med yesterday- I took a half of a 5mg tablet thats it and i had such a bad reaction but then i ended up bleeding this morning so i know its my hormones. Im afraid to continue the medication because the hormones are going to affect me the same way regardless so is it going to make things worse idk. Idk about anything anymore. I do have a terrible coating on tongue and taste and terrible gut health, I know yeast is a problem. I dont see a way to get this balanced out. Now week tired and shaky and i have to go get showered and ready for work i think i slept 3 hours last night and immediately had that feeling of anxiety all through my body like in my muscles its so hard to explain and such a weird feeling. Thank you all for making this a place i can come to through all of this. Hugs and kisses to all ❤❤
Guest susan39015
Posted
I did buy a juicer and started celery. Omg, it's like a colonoscopy cleanse reaction for me. I tried cutting back on the amount but still the same. For those of you with constipation, there you go..
I'm going to try cucumber juice to see if i can handle it better.
Just started taking regular Vit D and Vit B12.
Those of you with EbV, the immunologist told me Vit B 6 is crucial.
lelawreck susan39015
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Dear Susan 39015 - please tell me more about the celery juice thing!
Guest lelawreck
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First let me correct that B6 statement, that should be B9.
Celery juice first thing when you wake up before you have anything else. They recommend about 12 ounces. Only celery juice. Organic is best. Yes it gets expensive. If you dont have a juicer you can use a blender but will need to then strain it thru cheesecloth. You just want the juice, not any of the pulp.
Supposed to really help with viruses/autoimmune issues.
AJacynM susan39015
Posted
Oh wow, I could've written your post myself. I feel exactly the same... this menopause malarkey is very underrated. More help and support is needed really but I doubt it'll happen in our lifetime... I defo feel the same though in that I feel bad moaning and groaning when there are people obviously much worse than I out there, that said - I just want the old (good) me back!!! 😦
Hang in there. xxx