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Now i become emtionaless , selfish and careless

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sunaina1983
sunaina1983

Helloo friends

Donot know what going on from 2 years to me..my life fully change.......i am completely change person now..suffering from so many physical symptoms and alot of emotional changes too.

Earlier i was so caring person..love to talk to all.....care my friends & family ..go for parties, outings , shopping .....BUT NOW i donot feel any emotions for anyone..even for my family members.......i am having detach from all.....no excitement for anything..not much feeling for any...just be in my room..donot want to go out .....make excuses to all plans for my hubby made....I AM new person now ..FULLY CHANGE........

IS ME GETTING DEPRESSION ??

IS IT NORMAL IN PERI ?

tk

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  • patti56271
    patti56271 sunaina1983

    Posted

    I feel the same. Earlier I would let a lot slide, go out of my way to appease everyone and keep the peace. Could handle a lot of crap but now I am enraged easily. I don't mingle with friends or family but yes I do make an effort with hubby and my son. Cant say I succeed but I TRY.

    I cry for no reason and am often overcome with anxiety. Depressed too at having lost the woman and person I USED TO BE.

    I understand what you are saying. Try to relax and calm your thoughts when you are alone. music, movies, meditation helps me

  • ImagineOneDay
    ImagineOneDay sunaina1983

    Posted

    Helloooooo, i hear you very well my dear. I am the same. Very detached from many things and don't have friends any more. I don't want to be in touch with anyone. I am better and happier on my own. But then I question is it really a good life living on your own and keeping yourself to yourself. Don't worry, you are not alone. One day - hopefully soon- our hormones will settle and changes will end. We will again socialise and enjoy life. Take good care. Hugs

  • CarolDR
    CarolDR sunaina1983

    Posted

    You described me to a tee! I stay home and have now for years, and shop EVERYTHING online including groceries !

  • kelly55079
    kelly55079 sunaina1983

    Posted

    Yep me too.. Could care less about spouse (he's another child). Just yesterday ran a bunch of errands with son-- he had stuff to get done. Then this morning other son had some things to do and him taking his time.. I blew my top!! He then asked why I'm taking it out on him, I explained a bit then we laughed some. And thought when are these kids going to leave for college.. UGH My cycle starts in about a week and I'm just p****d off that I have to do for everyone else day in and out.. I need to focus on myself more and I don't even want to do that. Yes, I'm a mess-- that's all I can say.

  • sunaina1983
    sunaina1983

    Posted

    Thanks friends for reply and understand me

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