October 4th I was diagnosed with herpes
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Live long & prosper to all, I've been diagnosed with herpes last night and I feel horrible. The blisters are painful and I need some form of relief. Any suggestions? I am a 16 year old female and this experience is quite traumatic. Please if you have herpes share what you do and your experience living with it.
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tracy02071 gianna15366
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seekknowledge21 gianna15366
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I'm sorry dear, I was recently diagnosed too, I'm 22, it sure was traumatic. It's still hard to believe, it's only been since September 20th. I was in lots of pain too. I recommend changing your diet and living a very healthy lifestyle to prevent new break outs. Take vitamins! And try natural supplements if you aren't taking prescr. stuff. I used cats claw and that helped speed my recovery. Also try reishi. You can find these in pill form at a health food store. Increase your vitamin c intake. Do your research love, you will see all the natural antiviral things you can take and as I said become very healthy. I personally had lesions in my vagina, so didn't suffer from too many blisters on the outside area, i did have a few though and you should try popping them so they heal faster. Use a wash cloth, and just rubbing against them hard as fast as you can, I know it's extremely painful but you are tough girl, it will be over soon! Do this in the shower, easier and cleaner that way. Don't use that wash cloth any where else on the body just to scrub away blisters. And then just use a little bit of soap and rub just for the antibacterial. I also suggest not drying vagina with towel during this time since it hurts, use a blow dryer, it really works!!! TRyan to just relax and lay there, but be productive if it's not that painful. Try not to miss work or stop living your life, it will get better and when the blisters go away and you're healed, you will almost for get you have this. I know it hard, I'm still confused and slightly depressed but things are better now that my first outbreak is over! Just stay healthy and try not to stress about this, it is what it is, and remember stressing makes break outs worse ! Good luck dear
(also some people use ointment to help with painfull blisters)
gianna15366 seekknowledge21
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dora29322 seekknowledge21
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Hello Seekknowledge21,
Was recently diagnosed myself and i too have had "lesions" (NOT in blister form at ALL)
Have had two "lesions" total:
1. Years ago
2. Last week
The later is why i was tested for herpes. When diagnosed i was in Total Denial for a day or two, but after speaking with my doctor, Knew i had a "lil friend" that was not going anywhere. Am still learning to cope. Got 1 blister two days ago, then yesterday got another SO ONLY two so far ... Two legions and Two blisters.
My question to you is did you get lesions first or blisters?
&
Do your outbreaks alternate between the two?
In my 'research' i haven't heard of anyone else having a lesion before you, so i would love to hear your feedback ?
cartercali gianna15366
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So young .
I was young also when I got it .
You will live and you learn .
This doesn't make you any less of a person .
How are you feeling .
Does your parents know ?
Do you know who you managed to get it from ? I was 20 when I got it , I'm now 21 , got diagnosed with it December of 2015 . Been a long run down challenge some days are good some days are bad. Forgiveness is a big thing I've had to learn to deal with when I got this virus .
Don't ever let anyone make you seem like you are less then them .
The same people that can talk about it just might have it and not know ..
Behind every storm there is a rainbow .
gianna15366 cartercali
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Doing this and knowing I'm not alone is making it so much better. I feel like I'm gonna overcome this. I really appreciate your words of wisdom. I got it from my ex boyfriend who I have been with since I was 14. We started having sex last year in august he took my virginity.I was okay then but I guess he cheated and caught the virus.
gianna15366 cartercali
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cartercali gianna15366
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Ooh wow .
Are you guys still together ? Are you going to try to work it out or just say forget it ?
How does your mother feel about this?
I never told anyone .
Only person that knows is the person who infected me and my ex boyfriend / best friend .. too scared to tell people . They're so judgmental now days and I don't want anything thrown back in my face :.
I'm glad that you are having an good positive vibe about this I was total and completely opposite I didn't feel like my life was worth living anymore.
Things do change and miracles happen .
gianna15366 cartercali
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Honestly, there's just something's I believe just happen and he put me through enough. This is definitely the final straw. My mom is the only person who knows and she pretty much wants to strangle him. But this is a lesson well learned there's many things I look forward to accomplishing like my goals and my dreams I plan on practicing abstinence until I find someone who loves me wants to be with me flaws and all (and of course herpes too)
cartercali gianna15366
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Right and believe it or not herpes is becoming one of the main stds in the world . One in five people have it and don't even know .
You're young tho so you will have it all figured out before you know it .
Hang in tight .
Is your outbreak over with yet ?
How was the process with all that ?