Operation date 30/01/16
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5 days and counting, the last few weeks have been painful and I know this can't go on, but I'm still so very anxious, and I have a million and one questions unanswered.
I know I can ask anything , but to be totally honest, I've not opened all the messages on here as anything remotely sad, or bad I can not cope with. I read the first line and delete as they send me in a state of panic..... Xx
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Roxycturtle barbara97222
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Mine went well and I haven't experienced anything terrible at 6wks post op.
miele55255ch barbara97222
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I was petrified! Scared to death!
But my pain won out and I had to have it done.
I am now 9 months post op and when I look back it wasn't as bad as I had expected.
The little pain I did have was nothing compared to the OA pain from the bone on bone hip and for the first month I was on pain meds which was the first time I never felt pain anywhere. I have OA in all of my joints
I still have aches every once in a while but I never regret my decision.. Good luck to you!
sue1957Geo barbara97222
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suexx
marilyn_92910 barbara97222
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Hailea barbara97222
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please don't think that. There are just some bad experiences that some of us go through. It is nothing to do with the op 99% of the time. It is other things. Like my posts. I post them because my friends on here know I will say it as it is and what I am going through. I am sure they will all tell you my first hip was a breeze till my other hip collapsed and I had a few other none related problems. But those are behind me. I do have a problem with my second new hip. But that is because my hip was deformed and he had to do more work on it. That is something that is totally unusual and not many hips are like that. So don't get scared because of what you may read. Every hip op is as individual as each person no two ops are ever the same. I was scared to death each time and even though I have hit a little bump in the road. I want my life back. This has been going on for 5 years I lost 5 years of walking my dogs. 5 years of going out with my camera takin pictures that's a lot of time. I am sure you will be fine. The first few days are the hardest to get over but between day 3 and day 7 you will think nothing of it and you will have your life back. Yes for a short time you will have pain but it is a controllable pain not a nagging never ending pain. Everyone is scared its natural I was so scared once for another op I threw up all over the anti room they cancled my op that is how scared I was and that wasn't even my hips. We will all be with you to see you through t Barbara 👍
Gossip barbara97222
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Loral barbara97222
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lyn1951 barbara97222
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12 hours after my surgery, the nurses were saying you didn't use your painkiller button, during the night.
No I said, they looked at me thunderstruck, I said, I'm in less pain now, then I was yesterday morning when I walked from the car to the in the front door of the hospital and to the surgery unit.
They told me that won't last long, the physio is coming soon, they were right, the first time on your feet is challenging, and rather scary, and then you realise the pain is no longer coming from your hip, but just from where they did the surgery, The first morning the aim is to get you on your feet, and walk to the door of your room, I walked half way to the nurses station, to the amazement of the physios. Amazing yes, and the feeling i could move the hip without it going crunch and grind and sliding around inside as if I was on an ice skating rink.
linda38528 barbara97222
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renee01952 barbara97222
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It is okay ...
Why don't you start another thread and ask your questions -
As you found out already, we share our personal stories and experiences , he good, not so good, have a rant - feel sorry for ourselves and also our victories and accomplishments -
You are not alone - we all understand what you are going through ...
big warm hug
renee
barbara97222
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here are a few of my questions :-
Will I have to buy raisers for my bed as it's very low, as is my sofa?
Will I have to buy the loo seat too ?
When in hospital (5 days I've been told ) will I be able to get dressed? If so I'm guessing it will be comfy track suit type clothes. What will I wear on my feet ?
Can I wear Pj's whilst in or nightshirts?
Im nhs but going into a private hospital I've only see my surgeon and nurses who have completed my pre-op, should I of seen anyone else ?
Thank you so much for your lovely words of comfort, it means a lot xx
sue1957Geo barbara97222
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i had a nightdress i brought in, as it was eadier as i had a cathether. Best to take trackies just in case.
i had my op on the friday and was up on crutches on the Saturday out on Monday
please don't worry after you will feel a new person.
good luck hun,
suexx
sue1957Geo
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suexx
Rocketman_SG6UK sue1957Geo
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I took both long and short PJ's ...
In UK I had loo seats (two of them) supplied, and raisers for one chair.
Had to buy grabber (vital), shoehorn and sock-aid myself - ebay or amazon are good.
Also stick clips (see my website at "www thr org uk" - you need to fill in the dots between the letter groups there)
Graham - 🚀💃
Thursday_Next barbara97222
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My hospital told me to bring comfy clothes as everyone got dressed during the day however I discovered that no one bothered to dress during the day but stayed in night wear and dressing gowns. I wore pajamas, although I had short legged loose pajama bottoms so could cope with drain and catheter.
You will be fine.
rose0000 barbara97222
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I had a few bumps a long the way but would I change it - no way!!!! I am pain free now, walking well and getting better! For the first time in years I am experiencing zero pain. I would do it all again tomorrow. So it is all worth it even with the bump or two. For me the pain was minimal, and the whole operation itself was far easier and better than I anticipated. I think you will feel surprised at how well you will manage.
You will get your life back most importantly!
I would think about getting a whole selection of loose ( think two sizes bigger) for comfort if nightdresses so you can have fresh ones each day and night.
3 or more grabbers dotted about
Some good films
Slippers they support your feet not slips ons
Baby wipes for feeling fresh and hand washing
All beds and the chair you use will need to be raised.
A fully stocked fridge/freezer
It is a wonderful feeling when it is all over and you realise you are finally getting better, joyful even, you will be back home before you know it!
renee01952 barbara97222
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Do you live alone ? I do and had 2 THR surgeries -
Wooden blocks are put under sofa to get the height (you can also use bricks or something), Big thick cushion on dining chair -
two matresses on top of each other (not ideal) but also blocks can be put under bed - depends on your bed ...
Dressed my self with use of grabber and sock aid --- amazing how creative one gets - but yes, wear loose pants, like sweats - my scar was sensitive (I had staples)
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In the hospital I wore Sleep shirts and had nothing else but my crocks to take with me - for day time again, sweats ... t-shirt because it can be hot on the wards ...
Nurses will help you to get dressed when you need it ---
I also saw an anesthesiologist at pre-op to discuss options - I chose GA ....
I think most of your questions are covered .... bring it on, darling -
peace and angel blessings
big warm hug
renee
renee01952
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What I am saying is that you do need help in the beginning ...
Overwhelming isn't it ....