Operation date 30/01/16

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5 days and counting, the last few weeks have been painful and I know this can't go on, but I'm still so very anxious, and I have a million and one questions unanswered.

I know I can ask anything ,  but to be totally honest, I've not opened all the messages on here as anything remotely sad, or bad I can not cope with. I read the first line and delete as they send me in a state of panic..... Xx

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    Good luck to you Barbara! You will do great! All will go well! Relax and know it's in your surgeons capable hands.

    Mine went well and I haven't experienced anything terrible at 6wks post op.

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    Hi Barbara!

    I was petrified! Scared to death!

    But my pain won out and I had to have it done.

    I am now 9 months post op and when I look back it wasn't as bad as I had expected.

    The little pain I did have was nothing compared to the OA pain from the bone on bone hip and for the first month I was on pain meds which was the first time I never felt pain anywhere. I have OA in all of my joints

    I still have aches every once in a while but I never regret my decision.. Good luck to you!

     

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    Hey barbara, 10 weeks ago i was in your shoes, so scared couldn't sleep anyways, the hospital i was in was amazing, understood my fears and helped me through them. Now i have no pain can walk nearly normal sit, stand all the things that were so painful before getting to do them normally again is wonderful. So yes you will be scared right up to the minute but you wake up to a brand new life. Good luck 

    suexx

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    I have had both my hips done within 6 months of each other and ops have gone well, I had a very good surgeon,if you have confidence in your surgeon then that is 90% that is most problem solved, as for deleting messages, or opening them, they are not all that bad you get excellent advice xx
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    Hi Barbara

    please don't think that. There are just some bad experiences that some of us go through. It is nothing to do with the op 99% of the time. It is other things. Like my posts. I post them because my friends on here know I will say it as it is and what I am going through. I am sure they will all tell you my first hip was a breeze till my other hip collapsed and I had a few other none related problems. But those are behind me. I do have a problem with my second new hip. But that is because my hip was deformed and he had to do more work on it. That is something that is totally unusual and not many hips are like that. So don't get scared because of what you may read. Every hip op is as individual as each person no two ops are ever the same. I was scared to death each time and even though I have hit a little bump in the road. I want my life back. This has been going on for 5 years I lost 5 years of walking my dogs. 5 years of going out with my camera takin pictures that's a lot of time. I am sure you will be fine. The first few days are the hardest to get over but between day 3 and day 7 you will think nothing of it and you will have your life back. Yes for a short time you will have pain but it is a controllable pain not a nagging never ending pain. Everyone is scared its natural I was so scared once for another op I threw up all over the anti room they cancled my op that is how scared I was and that wasn't even my hips. We will all be with you to see you through t Barbara 👍

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    Hi Barbara I'm having my 2nd hip done day before u on 29th. Am currently sitting on an ice pack for pain. Can't wait for op now. No amount of pain relief or ice works until u have the op. My pain relief on 1st hip was instant. The pain after op is a healing pain & within a week or 2 u feel great. don't be scared. I was 1st time round & can honestly say u won't regret it. I knew I needed other side done so it was no surprise to have 2nd op 4 months to the day from 1st hip but within 6 months I'll be a new woman. We can get through this together. Keep in touch & let us know how ur getting on x
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    I never was in a hospital and at 53 years old needed a major surgery Anterior Left Hip Replacement. I was pain free the second day and climbing steps, it's amazing how soon you feel good, and how soon you feel real good...You'll do fine. Good Luck, and let us know.
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    barbara - If you were like me, bone on bone, unable to walk without massive amounts of pain.

    12 hours after my surgery, the nurses were saying you didn't use your painkiller button, during the night.

    No I said, they looked at me thunderstruck, I said, I'm in less pain now, then I was yesterday morning when I walked from the car to the in the front door of the hospital and to the surgery unit.

    They told me that won't last long, the physio is coming soon, they were right, the first time on your feet is challenging, and rather scary, and then you realise the pain is no longer coming from your hip, but just from where they did the surgery, The first morning the aim is to get you on your feet, and walk to the door of your room, I walked half way to the nurses station, to the amazement of the physios. Amazing yes, and the feeling i could move the hip without it going crunch and grind and sliding around inside as if I was on an ice skating rink.

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    Oh dear - you sound worse than me. I have read many of the messages on this forum and gained a lot fo courage from them. The take home message so far is: hang in there -  the OA pain will be gone very soon and the interim pain is manageable. You can do it. I am even told that I should be in good enough shape to go a Garth Brooks concert within three weeks after my operation! Put on your absolute favourite CD and listen to it tonight and imagine being able to dance ot it soon!

     

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    Hi Barbara, 

    It is okay ...  

    Why don't you start another thread and ask your questions - 

    As you found out already, we share our personal stories and experiences , he good, not so good, have a rant - feel sorry for ourselves and also our victories and accomplishments -

    You are not alone - we all understand what you are going through ...

    big warm hug

    renee

     

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    Thank you one and all, I'm not feeling at my best at the money I think I'm a bit run down, also still working up till Thursday. 

    here are a few of my questions :- 

    Will I have to buy raisers for my bed as it's very low, as is my sofa?

    Will I have to buy the loo seat too ? 

    When in hospital (5 days I've been told ) will I be able to get dressed? If so I'm guessing it will be comfy track suit type clothes. What will I wear on my feet ? 

    Can I wear Pj's whilst in or nightshirts? 

    Im nhs but going into a private hospital I've only see my surgeon and nurses who have completed my pre-op, should I of seen anyone else ? 

    Thank you so much for your lovely words of comfort, it means a lot xx

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      When i went for my pre op assessment i had to fill ou how tall my loo, bed and chair was, i then got a toilet seat and rail and a bathing chair all this came from the hospital.

      i had a nightdress i brought in, as it was eadier as i had a cathether. Best to take trackies just in case.

      i had my op on the friday and was up on crutches on the Saturday out on Monday 

      please don't worry after you will feel a new person.

      good luck hun,

      suexx

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      Oh I forgot the main thing you need is a grabber, my council do not supply those so i went to eBay, if you need anything and dont get it supplied to you go to eBay much cheaper 

      suexx

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      Loose clothing is vital, don't want any pressure on the dressing over your new scar.

      I took both long and short PJ's ... 

      In UK I had loo seats (two of them) supplied, and raisers for one chair.

      Had to buy grabber (vital), shoehorn and sock-aid myself - ebay or amazon are good.

      Also stick clips (see my website  at  "www thr org uk"   - you need to fill in the dots between the letter groups there)

      Graham - 🚀💃

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      I think you ought to check, perhaps with Surgeon's secretary, as I think you ought to have been contacted by Occupational Therapists by now who should arrange for things you will need immediately you are home.  Different health authorities provide different things - I was given a grabber, aid to putting socks on and shoe horn which I know some others weren't - as well as two toilet surrounds, perching stool and two toilet raisers.  

      My hospital told me to bring comfy clothes as everyone got dressed during the day however I discovered that no one bothered to dress during the day but stayed in night wear and dressing gowns.  I wore pajamas, although I had short legged loose pajama bottoms so could cope with drain and catheter.  

      You will be fine.

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      Hi Barbara - this is an extremely successful operation and most people sail through it, and even some of us who have the odd bump a long the way are fine!!!

      I had a few bumps a long the way but would I change it - no way!!!! I am pain free now, walking well and getting better! For the first time in years I am experiencing zero pain. I would do it all again tomorrow. So it is all worth it even with the bump or two. For me the pain was minimal, and the whole operation itself was far easier and better than I anticipated. I think you will feel surprised at how well you will manage.

      You will get your life back most importantly!

      I would think about getting a whole selection of loose ( think two sizes bigger) for comfort if nightdresses so you can have fresh ones each day and night.

      3 or more grabbers dotted about

      Some good films

      Slippers they support your feet not slips ons

      Baby wipes for feeling fresh and hand washing

      All beds and the chair you use will need to be raised.

      A fully stocked fridge/freezer

      It is a wonderful feeling when it is all over and you realise you are finally getting better, joyful even, you will be back home before you know it!

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      Hi Barbara, 

      Do you live alone ? I do and had 2 THR surgeries - 

      Wooden blocks are put under sofa to get the height (you can also use bricks or something), Big thick cushion on dining chair - 

      two matresses on top of each other (not ideal) but also blocks can be put under bed - depends on your bed ...

      Dressed my self with use of grabber and sock aid --- amazing how creative one gets - but yes, wear loose pants, like sweats - my scar was sensitive (I had staples)

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      In the hospital I wore Sleep shirts and had nothing else but my crocks to take with me - for day time again, sweats ... t-shirt because it can be hot on the wards ...

      Nurses will help you to get dressed when you need it --- 

      I also saw an anesthesiologist at pre-op to discuss options - I chose GA ....

      I think most of your questions are covered .... bring it on, darling -  

      peace and angel blessings

      big warm hug

      renee

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      Oops - Because I live alone I was authorized home health care - A nurse would come in every day for one week to help me strip wash and getting dressed , changed dressing on wound of necessary - then every other day and until staples were removed , then 3-2 a week ...

      What I am saying is that you do need help in the beginning ...

      Overwhelming isn't it ....

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