partners and fibroids
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Can I ask if it's unusual for your husband / partner to be dismissive about fibroids. I had a scan 2 years ago - it grew to 12 cm and had another scan couple of weeks ago - I have been worried about the 'what if it's something else' and very stressed ad it's growing. I have a dr appt on Thurs to discuss the results. I told my partner last night I had an appointment and he said nothing. Not what time, do you want me to come with you or are you ok! I tutted from stress this morning and he askec why - I said did I tell you I had the dr on Thurs, don't uou want yo ask me questions - he just said 'yeah well nothings changed has it'. I feel so alone and he is making it seem I'm being ridiculous. Does anyone else have this - am I ridiculous? 😕
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fibroidy ali86305
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Men are strange creatures. Men like to solve problems and I am guessing he is feeling helpless that he can not change the situation. Men also do not deal with illness well and he is probably thinking how he will cope if you have to surgery. I am giving him the beneft of the doubt as his response of  'yeah well nothings changed has it', is harsh and he should have really been more supportive. I did go to my appointments on my own as thats how i wanted it, but at home, my hubby was understanding as he could see how ill the fibs were making me each month.
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