Penis issue during sex

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About a month ago I tried to have sex (for the first time - I'm 22 yes I know that's old) and I was horny and erect pretty instantly, but then the girl went down on me and started really yanking the little guy so much so that I was actually in pain and my penis was red raw. Then, we tried having sex but it just wouldn't go in even though I'd done a lot of foreplay and she was very wet. We tried a number of positions, but it just wouldn't go in (I don't have a big penis at all - flaccid it's about 2.5 inches and erect about 5) and by now my penis was actually starting to numb. All in all, I couldn't ejaculate and I felt really uncomfortable as though I'd let us both down.

It doesn't hurt when I masturbate and ejaculate normally, but just the action of her pulling my penis back (which is quite common?) really hurt. I went to the doctors after who said I had inflammation, but what if this is a recurring problem? What if I can't have pain-free sex? I'm scared.

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    First time is often awkward because you are not quite sure what exactly to do.  You might try the missionary position which puts the guy more in control?
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      I see it the other way around. Put her on top. She has more control over her own stimulation it be easier for her to get off. . And guys don't need to work at being stimulated cheesygrin. Tell her she was a little rough on Mr. Happy. You guys are probably watching porn thinking thats the its done. . If she wants to give you a hand job get some lube and tell her to SLIDE her hand on you penis and don't yank it. 

      OK just realize this was and old post. 

       

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    Is it lubrication you need?  KY Jelly which you might both apply before you start might be the answer.  There are other coloured and flavoured brands, but KY was the stock product others recommended to us.
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    Hey everyone, I tried again last night with having sex. I'm sure I have an issue with my penis because I got an erection just fine then we were did foreplay in which she gave oral - was ok but my penis was getting very sore again even though she was not rough at all. Then we were having sex (it went in normal this time) but my penis was still incredibly sore and I just could not ejaculate again. This is a different girl from the one I first posted about so why is my penis still this sore? I thought it was going to start bleeding at one point and the girl wasn't even rough - in fact she was superb. Now my penis is stinging like made and I don't know what to do. I couldn't ejaculate AGAIN and didn't even climax

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