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susanmac68
susanmac68

HELP!!!!! I LOSING MY HUSBAND BECAUSE OF PERIMENOPAUSE MOODS SWINGS...... I DONE KNOW WHAT TO DO! !!!!!!!

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  • mrsmop
    mrsmop susanmac68

    Posted

    Hi Susan, have you been to discuss it with your GP?  Are you going to contemplate HRT? 

    The HRT would help 

     

    • mrsmop
      mrsmop

      Posted

      I ought to have said that you should talk to your husband too.
    • susanmac68
      susanmac68 mrsmop

      Posted

      I have talked to my husband he says it's all in my head.....
    • mrsmop
      mrsmop susanmac68

      Posted

      Well, that's a good start because he obviously isn't planning on disappearing!  Go and see your GP Susan, good luck.

       

    • fx70349
      fx70349 mrsmop

      Posted

      But he could use his response as his justification to get lost somewhere, even in temporary phases
    • fx70349
      fx70349 susanmac68

      Posted

      Even though it may sound harsh my advice is to let them go if they want to leave. Never settle for less. Once a leaver, always a leaver. Thats my bottom line view.
    • susanmac68
      susanmac68 fx70349

      Posted

      It's so hard to let go.... I love him more than I've ever loved anyone.....
    • fx70349
      fx70349 susanmac68

      Posted

      If he cannot understand that after all the years you two have had together then he's not worth it. Sad, but true.
    • susanmac68
      susanmac68 fx70349

      Posted

      Our 1 year wedding anniversary is Oct. 6th, guess I'm screwed......
    • VauxhallGirl
      VauxhallGirl susanmac68

      Posted

      As a bloke, he can't understand hormoes...maybe he would like to go to GP with you and have the Doc explain to him what is going on inside you. x
  • fx70349
    fx70349 susanmac68

    Posted

    the first step, in my view, would be to have a heart to heart discussion with your partner. understanding each others situation clearly is a key to establishing a strong relationship
    • susanmac68
      susanmac68 VauxhallGirl

      Posted

      He keeps threatening to go back to London, he moved here 2 yrs ago and he says I will never find him there.....
    • VauxhallGirl
      VauxhallGirl susanmac68

      Posted

      You know what? You are better off without him if that's his attitude!  eek

      He is not helping at all, at a time when you really could use some support.

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