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guys i'm sorry this is not very anxiety related but at the same time it is in a way that i'm getting anxious about it but i really need advice asap! so there is tjis guy i like and we have kissed a few times but are only friends. however i get mixed feeling from him if he likes me more than friends or not and we always flrit when we are together and my friends think he likes me and everyone says we have a connection. i think he did not know how i felt about him and its stressing me out not to know what is going on. so today a friend convinced me to text him and ask if he wants to hang out just the two of us as friends, since we normally only hang out with other people and wotj influence of alcohol and he said yes. so it would be to see if this is going anywhwre or not (not planning on telling him i just want to see if its a possibility based on how it goes in order for me to move on). but now i talked to my sister and says i should cancel because she says i'm soundong too desperate and this guy is already used to having girls fall for him all tje time and that with what i did i'm basically giving him much importance and he will know i like him. she says i will make things worse and its better to cancel. but i don't know what to do!?
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rose98416 anakruyff
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I wouldnt cancel, the only reason is you may regret it. If you are friends anyway you have nothing to lose. Your just a couple of friends going out for a drink with the possibility of getting closer. Have fun and see how it goes. Apart of you must have a stronger feeling because you wouldnt have text him to begin with suggesting hanging out. Id do it, just enjoy yourself. Be confident and keep us updated! Good luck ❤