Please help I need relief
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My mom passed in July of this year and my anxiety has spiked i have 3 kids that sometimes i cant even care for they are ages 3, 1 and 5 months old.
I have been to the ER twice for chest pains with everything fine and them telling me its anxiety but still here are the chest pains and i have a dr. Appointment once again over it. Some days its fine other days its worse or different.... I cant stand it i cry not wanting to feel this way anymore. Please help me!!!!
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dee53012 sammiOrr
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Hang in there!
joe_04369 sammiOrr
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I'm sorry for your lose, it will never really go away but try to think of the good times you had, it makes it a little easier. If your Anxiety gets worse go see a Dr, they can maybe prescribe something to help you or maybe some therapy. Good luck.
sue58256 sammiOrr
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sammiOrr sue58256
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I am kind of alone here besides my kids father and his family which he has no inderstanding of loss of a parent and most of his family still have yet to even try to get to know me. I hope that your baby is now well and healthy!
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wendywilts sammiOrr
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Its really early days yet, and you are only just coming to terms with your loss. We all grieve in different ways, its a very personnel thing, we all have our own wsy of working through the grieving process.
You have small children which depend on you, so to withdraw as you want to isnt an option.
My advice would be to see your gp, maybe get some medication in the short term, even consider bereavement councilling. Try to focus on all the good things in your life, your little ones, they are whate will help you through this, if you let them, dont forget, they arent just your children, they are your mums Grandchildren, as well, they are part of her, in them and you, she lives on.
Only time will take away the awful pain you feel at this minute, but slowly, you will not hurt so much, and that is how it should be, slowly you will become yourself again, and instead of tears there will be smiles, of happy memories of your mum.
This is the way it is for everyone, we have to grieve in order to come through the other side.
But if you really arent able to cope, and your little ones are not being cared for as they should be, then Please, seek help, we all need help sometimes, there is nothing wrong with admitting you cant cope,
Everyone on this forum is here for you hun, but a dr can prescribe something to get you through if you need it, xxx
sammiOrr
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