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I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months today, and hes not from the same state as me, but hes with me right now for a contracted job. Hes been rewnewing his contract over and over to be with me but they are now telling him he has to either take a full time job or they will hire someone else to take his place. He is 25 years old and Im only 21 and I have a 4 year old son. Hes never been in a relationship with a mother before. And his parents back at home are not fond of the idea of me being a mother or fond of me living in a whole different state. They called him yesterday telling him he is making a mistake staying here and that ill hold him down. they want him to come back home and take a full position there. up until this point ive felt pretty confident in our relationship, we have little baby arguments but nothing we dont get over in a matter of minutes. I cant just pack my bags and move with him to lousianna because I have geogaphic restrictions from the court saying i cant move out of this certain county because of my sons dad. but we do visit his home a lot, every 3 weeks. Sorry i feel like im going on and on but i need soe advice really bad. last night he told me he didnt know what he wanted to do, he didnt know if he should go back home or say with me. he told me he has really strong feelings for me, but Idk I feel like ever since he told me he was second guessing us, ive become really inscure. I dont know how to act around him, I cant fake being happy. he doesnt want me to be all sad around him, please help me.
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