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kind of mentally going through it . Met this girl that im talking to and things are getting serious . But, because i believe i might have herpes i might just have to end things & deal with this . 3rd outbreak of blisters . From what i read online though , i should have had blisters on my penis but the outbreak had never gotten that far down .
outbreaks are always where my pubic hairs are
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ben93691
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Most recent blister
susan17426 ben93691
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Ben, don't wait. Go to the doctor, Urgent Care swabs them and test. Ask for a swab, urine, and blood test. if felt untreated can be bad. im in the same boat and scared also i think my boyfriend of 1 year gave it to me and im just hoping its nothing like Genital Herpes just something cureable. Please go get tested.
ben93691 susan17426
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Yes, im definetly going get it looked at . im praying it isnt herpes . Thanks for your response . Dont have health insurance & im not in a great financial stage in my life right now
Popupoi susan17426
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susan can you help? i made a post...
susan17426 ben93691
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you are not the only one! i went and they saw me even with my insurance but she said theyll bill me the doctor said shell put me on the herpes meds just in case it comes back positive and they gave the cream that is strong and its like a numbing pain Reliever. im scared but my bf is saying we will be fine and hes not leaving me
susan17426 ben93691
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both of them were $27 together and im struggling. i talked to my friend whos with a guy who has it who got it from her friend and she said that they have a normal sex like and everything she said its nothing he takes a pill and is fine and lives a normal life
susan17426 ben93691
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Ben I've cried and cried and cried even though about killing myself because if this is herpes i dont want to live like this for the rest of my life i want children and to be happy. its a lot youre not alone i can promise you that.
ben93691 susan17426
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im kind of relieved to hear that im not alone . still wishing i dont have it & its something curable . it actually doesnt hurt at all . i hope you dont have it either . if i do have it , i wont kill myself and ill learn to deal with it . you should definetly do the same if it comes back positive . We wont be letting a skin condition dictate our life . None the less this is still scary
susan17426 ben93691
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Ben, I have prayed for it to be something else idc what STI just something cureable. my emotions will be up and down about it, i try not to look it up because i know the sore hurts and its just overwhelming ive pleading to god to just give me one more chance. im so scared. the meds dont seem to really help still some pain so hopefully its something from the panty liners i use but Cottonnelle had a recall do to Bacteria and i was hoping its that to
s4261738 susan17426
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@susan17426 HSV shouldn't impact your ability to have children, and in fact even if it is HSV you can live a totally normal, happy and healthy life even with it. It's simple to manage and incredibly common. Most of the time I forget that I even have it. Feel free to message me if there's anything I can do to try and help you through all of this. I know it's scary right now, but it's truly not as bad as it seems at the moment.
s4261738 ben93691
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Hi, Ben. The best advice I can give you is to definitely go get tested and then go from there. You do not have to end things with this girl because of your concerns over this. You should, however, have an open and honest conversation with her about it. This is especially important if you guys have been sexually active. Herpes isn't a death sentence for you or for your romantic/sexual life. Seriously, talk to her about it and don't just assume that it needs to end.
susan17426 ben93691
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my results for HSV has not came back just the others sti results and i was positive for trichomoniasis calling my obgyn to see if thats why i have the sore